Tablette im Brötchen?
Hallo,
Ich bin komplett hilflos langsam. Nun war ein neuer Vorfall. Mein Sohn kam am Freitag zu mir. Ich habe seine Brotdose geöffnet, er hatte nichts gegessen in der Schule, ich habe das Brötchen weggeschmissen. Als ich später nochmal was in den Bio Müll werfen wollte, stellte ich ein weißes Steinchen in seinem Brötchen fest.
Ich habe mir das ganze genau angeschaut und feststellen müssen, dass das Steinchen eine Tablette war.
Ich weiß jetzt gar nicht wie ich mich verhalten soll.
Die Mutter von meinem Sohn hat leider in der Vergangenheit schon sehr oft für meinen Geschmack die Gesundheit meines Sohnes angezweifelt und versucht immer alles um diagnosen zu bekommen. Aktuell möchte sie meinen Sohn auf ADHS testen lassen und möchte ihm Ritalin geben.
Ich bin mit zum Psyschologentermin gegangen, was der Mutter überhaupt nicht recht war, sie war sogar sehr erschrocken dass ich mit zu diesem Termin gekommen bin. Sie war sehr ungehalten, als sie mich an dem Tag beim Psyschologen gesehen hatte.
Ich hab unzählige Beispiele, dass die Mutter egal wie, eine Diagnose gestellt bekommen will.
Auch falschaussagen sind Standart.
Was kann ich als sorgeberechtigter Vater tun? Hat jemand vielleicht eine Ahnung.
Mein Verdacht bestätigt sich immer weiter, dass die Mutter an einem Münchhausen-by-proxy Syndrom leiden könnte.
Gerade jetzt, wo ich die tablette gefunden habe. Ich kenne niemanden, der ins Essen tabletten gemischt bekommt zumal ich keinerlei Info habe, dass mein Sohn was einnehmen muss.
Sobald ich die Mutter über sowas befragen, wird sie ungehalten und lenkt ab, sie antwortet gar nicht auf meine Fragen. Stellt mich als Kind hin und ich soll erwachen werden. Usw.
Wenn es das Syndrom ist, sollte man ja sowieso niemanden damit Konfrontieren.
Aber was kann man tun? Ich bin echt verzweifelt.
Dankeschonmal für eure Antworten…
Schöne Weihnachten.
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Talk to your son about it. If his observations are your support, contact police or police immediately. Youth Office.
I would contact a lawyer. If she administered medication to your son without medical prescription, the body injury. You just have to prove that, i.e. open the bread can the next time in the presence of a witness.
If the mother has a mental disorder, you can’t do much of your side with conversations. There is even a risk of child welfare if the mother treats it simply without good reason. That’s why I’d go the hard way.
Collect evidence, turn on lawyer, obtain advice on your son’s health, give the rest of the family the most important information, turn on the youth office, request notification against the mother z, sole custody of the family court.
You obviously like to make mutual diagnosis.
Wouldn’t it be necessary first to find out who did the tablet to eat? I’d go to the pharmacy.
Could be drugs, too. Then ask the son and exclude all others so that only the mother remains. Then confront them where they got the stuff. Emergency ad.
Well, the bread can wasn’t open. The breads were completely untouched. When I asked my son why he hadn’t eaten, he said there was something at school.
I’m not diagnosed. I’m just worried. The mother is a diagnosed borderlinerin
Contact the Youth Office, but also let the evidence be secured and analyzed. Otherwise, everything is just claims.
The question whether your son has this is important and yes should be controlled by an expert. If he isn’t the bottom drawer, he also notices/recognises false statements of parents, or tickles the truth out of the child.
If the diagnosis is, it would be wrong to ban his medicines, just because you doubt the diagnosis yourself.
If there is no diagnosis yet, and this tablet should have been preventively worried by the mother, the very dangerous terrain. If you still have the tablet, either ask the doctor/pharmacy what this could be. Each tablet has a certain shape and pressure to recognize it. If this has no one at all, it is either no medicine (just a drop like tictac for fresh breath) or non-EU-approved medicines (you can unfortunately get online everywhere, although I am not 100% sure that all the approved pressures I already know)
And a remote diagnosis of the mother isn’t good either, that’s better to be regulated by an expert. Are you separated? A family therapy might give an insight
There’s no diagnosis. The first date, however, was the child psychologist saying that it was not ADHD. He’s normal. Must say that the mother was with the little one for the second time with a psyscholog. But at the first time, she was suggesting that she should continue in therapy. Then she said further appointments and said they had no idea.
I tried the piece, is not a tiktak
It tasted bitter.
That was very hard, but it could be crushed to a powder after it was scraped off with the nail.
Many tablets have no imprint or other signature!
However, these can usually be identified by size, shape and color, unless deformed. (Apotheker can, or other people who can handle the “Gelben List Identa”)
Ok, thank you for the more accurate information, I knew there was a regulation that is quite clearly identifiable, but I am not even active in the field, had it only at the university
You should take a lawyer and give you advice. Talk to your son and ask him what the mother does.
The next step would then be to let the mother’s child be withdrawn and to sue for the sole custody. So let a lawyer advise you early.
You should confront the mother with the “Münchhausensyndorm”. She needs a psychologist more urgent than the child.