SVV scars and summer?
So first of all hello,
Summer is coming soon and although I love it, there is a problem.
My self-harm scars aren't a big problem for me. I wouldn't show them at school, as my parents and teachers don't need to know about that part of my life (my parents aren't the best). But when I go swimming or do other things with my friends, I'll have to show them. Also to my exchange student and not-so-close friends.
Should I warn them? Or just show them and live with it.
Thanks in advance and feel free to ask me if you have any questions!
Of course, you can walk around in summer with long-sleeved dresses. But I would tell a familiar person if not parents then tell teachers so you can get help. The worse you get, the less you’re ready to get help with someone.
Yes I should, but as soon as my parents get wind of it, the situation would get much worse and since I am underage it will be a little hard to get with help without the parents knowing it๐
For example, if you talk to the teacher and ask him to speak to the parents. He also knows addresses that can help you.
Hey, I’m really grateful you’re trying to help me. I only know that if my parents find out that it would get really much worse. Not just mental to me. Well thank you
You have to decide for yourself. You will definitely not be able to hide your scars if you are in the swimming pool, for example.
That’s why I wanted to ask. Let me tell them first or make them simple ๐
The decision can’t take you off on a good question. You have to decide. Do you know your environment or do I know your environment? You have to estimate what the best way to handle.
Just show. I’m sure they won’t talk to you about it and live on.