SVV INFLAMMATION URGENT HELP?

!!!TW!!! SELF HARM!!!

Hi guys, I've mentioned many times that I'm 17 and actually my posts have always been from me, since I've been hurting myself since I was 10.

A few days ago I found out that a friend of mine, who is also 14, had injured herself and the scar was deep (from an eyebrow razor).

Today we were outside and I asked her how the healing process was going and also asked her if it was infected and she said yes.
At first I thought she was joking, but she really meant it because it was festering, she said.

That's why I told her straight away that she should come with me to the doctor or that I should ask my sister, who works for the emergency services, or that I should tell her mother about it so that she could do something.
However, she doesn't want to accept any of the offers and says that she doesn't care.

I have no idea what to do. I'm pretty sure she wants to and will cut off contact with me if I tell her mother, but on the other hand, she could die from blood poisoning if she gets it, which is something I couldn't forgive myself for.

I also asked her about other symptoms and she said that it was red, warm, oozing pus and painful, and that it had been like this for 6 days.

I know I HAVE to tell the mother, but we just saw the mother outside with the stepfather and they were drinking cocktails, so I'm pretty unsure.

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JoeMamaGF
6 months ago

You told her what you could say. You could tell the mother, and you have to guess how it fits.

But if people don’t want to accept help, you can’t do much. She should be a doctor, of course, and let him look over it.

The inflammation must also feel very unpleasant. How deep is it? Fat tissue?

So just because it’s inflamed doesn’t have to happen something bad, but you shouldn’t underestimate it.

If you’ve done it, it’s up to her what she does.

LiebesLebenfrei
6 months ago

You could say that she goes to the doctor with you or to your sister or you’re telling the mother a question you’re going to the doctor?

Stupid situation but this is very dangerous with inflammation, you are not a bad friend when you set it before the choice.