Svv am arm verstecken?
Hey, bin w16 ich verletze mich selber, aber weil ich etwas spüren will ich spüre innere Leere in mir und wenn ich mich sv dann spüre ich das ich noch da bin.
Ich hab es diesmal am arm gemacht aber meine mama weiß nicht das ich es noch mache, also jetzt meine frage wie kann ich es am arm verstecken, weil sie soll nicht sehen das ich es wieder gemacht habe. Auch das ich es mehr mal schon mache am oberschenkel aber das sieht sie nicht
Please talk to your mother about the subject. Talking always helps. Then look with your mother professional support/help such thoughts are not correct.
Hideing it is not good, nor fair to your mother. She’s probably worried. Talk to her about it and find a solution together. Just if you feel empty inside and sometimes want to know that you are there then do not hurt yourself but listen to loud music. Some song that gives you power.
wearing jersey jacket or have a sweater where you can go through the thumbs (no idea how that is) that doesn’t matter to anyone, especially because the winter is coming.
Not at all. It’s important she knows that so you can get help and therapy.
I go to therapy so I only had 1 conversation my mama knows I do this but she thinks I stopped
Then speak openly about it in therapy and with your mother.
Then be honest and listen to destroying your trust
Maybe you can handle that she sees that arm. So that you’re gonna pretend she doesn’t see it… It helped me, too, but it wasn’t so much in one place.
Being honest is best, but I can understand how you’re doing isn’t just always honest. :’
Maybe wear a jacket or pull it on, even if it’s warmer today. ^^
Basically not, you can try to delay it a little, but it will come out on short or long anyway. Most of them are already far beyond this phase, with you it will take a little more. Talk to your parents explain the thing to you, then the trouble is clear.
These scars will keep your life long, better you show them open and find help.