Sollten Eltern einem beim Studium/Prüfungen unterstützen können?
Kurz zum Thema: Eltern mischen sich ein. Wie sind eure Erfahrungen diesbezüglich? Ich weiß, dass mir meine Eltern helfen möchten. Leider habe ich in der Vergangenheit aber auch die Erfahrung gemacht, dass das nach hinten gehen kann. Allerdings weiß ich auch, dass Eltern als Nicht-Akademiker nur bedingt helfen können und sollten. Gerade wenn es um eine Abschlussarbeit im Studium geht, ist der Druck da noch mal ein bisschen höher. Wie seht ihr das? Was hilft euch bei der Prüfungsvorbereitung?
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During my Diploma thesis, my mother “only” paid attention to linguistic things or whether she thinks it as techn. to understand uninterested halfway, but that was worth a lot.
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Define “help”.
Sit down with the student and buffalo the fabric? Certainly not, that would be a poverty certificate. A degree also has a lot to do with independent learning. Apart from the fact that the fewest parents have probably studied the same as their children and could teach them the stuff, even if they wanted.
Building moral (learning crises have every time), encouraging and comforting? Sure. For this, you have friends and family and that doesn’t need any expertise.
Let’s cook delicious things, make a round of laundry in the critical phase, or otherwise lose weight in everyday life, so that the student can concentrate entirely on his exams: this is certainly welcome.
My mother and aunt Paula could still help me at the Volksschule (DE: Primary School). Maybe a little more in the secondary stage but then it was over.
Nevertheless, I already took professional assistance at the Volksschule. I always had help, from undergraduate to graduation. Fortunately, the remedies were paid by the state until the Matura (DE: Abitur) because I am an Autist and my mother only got the minimum pension.
The power is interrogated which I myself ,. And not the performance I can do with my parents!
Should parents come to work later and help you do your job? Because you are not able to perform the work on your own, which a single person can otherwise provide?
… they think that the student is gradually getting old enough to do his own work. He’s not 5 anymore!
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Because I saw others interpret the question differently than I did. I interpret this “supporting in the exams” in such a way that parents are present in the examination situation and give suggestions for answers to the examination tasks. Similar to the final work.
My parents both studied (but not my mother in Germany) and could not help me anyway.😅 Even if they didn’t. I’m not studying, but I’m going to the eleventh grade.
I learn with other people in a learning group in some subjects.
My parents, fortunately, never interfere because they have quite great trust in me.Helfen could not be great to me anyway.
You’re serious about studying?
This is understandable for the school sector. But when studying, young people should be so far that they get clear without their parents.
Parents can support you in studying IMMER. And by keeping your back free as they can.
You can also be a non-academic. And even as an academic, you cannot always help, especially when it comes to graduate clausures. My father has a doctorate, my mother has also completed a degree, and they both have no idea what I’m learning like that, because it’s completely past their respective subjects.