Sollten Eltern deren Kinder immer vorhalten was andere Kinder machen und erreicht haben?
Was ist eure Meinung dazu?
Beispiele:
,,Schau dir XY an”
,,Der studiert was machst du?”
,,Der hat eine Freundin und du?”
Was ist eure Meinung dazu?
Beispiele:
,,Schau dir XY an”
,,Der studiert was machst du?”
,,Der hat eine Freundin und du?”
Ich habe schon öfter von einem Ort geträumt, meine Träume Handelten aber nicht von diesem Traum. Er ist nur neben bei da. Was kann das zu bedeuten haben?
Ab wann geht schlagen zu weit und sollte beim Jugendamt gemeldet werden? Meine Mutter hat mich gerade geschlagen und mein ganzer arm war deswegen rot und das dribbeln ist noch da.
sie ist sauer auf mich weil ich krank zuhause bin und dass ich quasi ein weichei bin dass ich obwohl ich kein hohes fieber habe (nur 37,6) und “nur” husten, schnupfen, atemnot und bauchweh von der schule zuhause bleibe sie hat mich ja am mittwoch noch zur schule gezwungen aber da gings mir den ganzen…
Guten Tag/Abend! Ich habe ein ziemlich nerviges Problem. Meine Eltern speziell meine Mutter schickt mich überall hin macht nie was selber. Ich habe es richtig satt ständig irgendwas einkaufen zu MÜSSEN oder/und jeden Tag den blöden Geschirrspüler einzuräumen und noch so andere Sachen zu tun. Und das schlimme ist, das sie mich dazu zwingt und…
Mein Neffe muss unbedingt vom Kindergarten abgeholt werden aber mein Bruder hat die ganze Woche Nachtschicht und kann mich nicht abholen wie komme ich jetzt heim?
damit was auf den Tisch kommt, denn Lebensmittel & Co. müssen ja auch finanziert werden oder gibt,s nur Pizza und Pro secco .. (?!) außerdem müsste dann ein drittes Konto her, damit ein Modus gefunden wird, den gemeinsamen Haushalt zu finanzieren – ist Haushalt finanzieren eine Sache nach altem Rollenspiel vom Ehemann, der seiner Frau…
In principle, it is not advisable to compare a person with another person, since this can quickly trigger a drastic reaction and thus the intended learning effect will not occur.
However, the discussion should be conducted at an objective and age-appropriate level to find out possible reasons for the behaviour.
This is usually the longer and more strenuous way and is therefore not used. This, in turn, often results in a “saturation” from the point of view of the requesting person being achieved in the short term or only superficially, but more damage is done in the long term than a benefit can be claimed.
In short:
Sometimes. The intention and age would be important to know.
In principle, I find this action bad, as it reduces the motivation and self-esteem. The younger the child, the more painful it usually becomes (of course this is also very hurting in older people and can have even worse effects).
In rare cases, however, this is a kind of “A.-Tritt” and can stimulate the child. How educationally valuable this is, I’ll leave open. The fact is, in very rare cases, it can create motivation for people who want to change something, and create a change of sense with the person.
Not in any case, but especially children are those that parents “project” their friends if they want to enforce their will.
The xy has a new bike and I don’t. Children still have the better nerves, so that such behaviors use parents as well as their children.
Sometimes it makes sense to keep the child or teenager in mind that it can go too much.
But just to harass the child or teenager should not be chosen this kind of criticism.
Their own children are their own children and not the other child.
I’ll find out, but there are exceptions. I think age plays a role. As a small incentive to a school-aged child, I still think it’s okay. In adults, people who receive from their parents in retrospect, I find next. Short example: A friend of mine was recently 30. The parents were invited to the birthday. At some point, the mother mentioned having met an old school friend of her son who would have achieved so much. At some point, the father also sounds, and together, the two might have gone wrong (before all people).
It’s annoying. Isn’t that right now that this would motivate me to study. At best, it makes me a bad conscience because my parents would be disappointed.
How does education take place? To give the child unlimited freedom? No. Well, you have to make some pressure. If you don’t want to educate your children, you shouldn’t bear them.
With such comments you only generate inferiority complexes etc. If from the child nothing will have failed in most cases parents.
That’s right. But education is important and complete freedom is sometimes not education.
When it comes to children…… no one should tell or pretend to his child, because…
each child is different and learns according to his possibilities.
There must also be craftsmen in the future, not only studied people.