Should I get circumcised?
Hello,
I am 16 and have a question about my foreskin.
My older brother (18) also had himself circumcised two years ago, at my age, at his own request and also at the request of my parents. I see him do it every now and then and I think it looks much better. He also told me that it feels really good to always have his glans exposed and recommends it to me.
Since I have a very long foreskin that extends 1cm beyond the glans, I don't think it looks particularly good. Besides, I wash under the foreskin every day, and it still starts to smell a bit and feels moist and dirty.
I've been thinking about having my foreskin removed for a while now.
But since I don't know what it will be like afterwards, I'm still hesitating a bit.
My mother also spoke to me at the end of last year and said that my older brother had also been circumcised when he was my age and asked if I wanted to do it too and she thought it would be a great idea.
But I'm just thinking about how it is, whether women will like it later on and whether I won't miss the foreskin when I masturbate.
So should I get circumcised and if so, partially or fully and what style?
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Hi.
In short:Yes
Reasons: Your family is positive and you are in principle. Nevertheless, you will not be forced to do anything and have developed the desire to do so. For comprehensible reasons I find.
A partial circumcision is not as good as possible, in which as much skin is removed as possible. The ribbon must also be removed. That’s how it was with me and I wish I had been so cut at your age.
SB and GV are wonderful and no shorter or longer than before. However, I need gliding gel at the SB so that the skin does not rub unpleasantly.
If you also tend to YES, write it on a note and wait 4 weeks. If you still want to: From to parents and then to Doc. You will be thrilled!
Greetings and fun. My tip: You let it go!
Thanks for the star and welcome to the club of circumcisions!
If I were in your place, I would let it go. I’ve been trimmed with 30 and I have to say that I like it better and especially my wife. She’s like your mom, generally for circumcision. There are so many women who are pros. You’ll miss the pre-skin very much at the SB. Therefore, I favor the high and thight style, there remains a lot of sensitive skin and SB works very well. You probably need some lubricant to wear dry SB not all. You can also be cut loose, then there will be a lot of shaft skin and you can do well with SB. However, in my opinion, this is not a consequent circumcision and the acorn will always be partially covered, which one does not actually want. The acorn should be exposed after circumcision.
If you can imagine it and have been thinking about it for a while, let it go. But from a partial circumcision, I would advise you, as a partial circumcision can lead to a renewed narrowing. I’ve been circumcised with 43, and I’m annoyed that I haven’t been doing it much earlier, because normally it should be done with me in kindergarten, which was unfortunately not done because of a flu and I just wanted to get rid of it since the time
Ultimately, it’s a memory and an offer from your mum. Take it, go to her when she’s relaxed and find the conversation with her. Tell her you want to cut yourself, very low and tight. She has the experience and knows which doctors are the best. That is why she should organize it and guide it in the way. She knows how to proceed.
I think that’s cool that there’s such a little tradition in your family. In my family it ran so similar to 14 only my mom said it was done. I didn’t say anything about it.
I can agree with the advantages you write. I am also very happy with it.
When it comes to style, I would recommend you low & tight (I also have). It brings all the benefits and looks best.
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I even cut and regret it no second. For me, circumcision brought back more quality of life.
My personal opinion
If you thought so thoroughly, I’d let it go. I haven’t regretted the decision of that time for a second.
I think it’s better if a long foreskin is removed. I did this too and I am very happy with it. Such a long foreskin only looks unsightly, it usually also makes problems in traffic. I’ve been undecided and hesitant for a long time, but I’m glad I’ve done it in the end.
If you let it do, it should be tight and not a partial circumcision. I prefer High and tight, because this keeps a lot of sensitive inner foreskin.
Women have different opinions depending on their own environment and their own experiences. I believe that the majority of women feel positive when the man is circumcised.
Then let it go.
“Sollen” is generally such a tricky thing. I want you to do what you are convinced of yourself.
it is not our task here to tell you what to do.
but as you see yourself, your brother has strong arguments. By the way, I can fully understand that they are all correct.
and if you just tell yourself that you have a very long foretaste of the front as a beetle as with an elephant, then you have already given yourself the answer.
I have already met or spoken several adults, or at least the young people at the post-pubertian age, as with you now, who know and can judge that before and after, all of them are extremely satisfied.
in this respect, I would do it in your place, especially since your parents would just put it on you. So you have no discussion.
That is, however, not that I command you to do this. I say that I would do it in your place.
from the point of view of the woman, I can only say that it is more pleasant with a cut ten times.
I can answer the question of the best style as follows:
the present inner side of your foreskin is very sensitive and sensitive. In principle, I would cut as high as possible in order to obtain exactly that as completely as possible. The current outer skin is quite stinky normal skin, as well as on the penis shaft or elsewhere. This is now not excessively sensitive or especially, but quite normal skin. That doesn’t matter.
if you cut very low, then you unnecessarily remove the complete formerly inner foreskin, and the seam lies completely close to the acorn. It doesn’t seem to make sense. Even though there are many who are so cut that are very satisfied.
and then I would generally make it relatively firm, i.e. that in erection no or at least hardly any skin can be pushed back and forth without great effort. Then you just reached the optimum.
unfortunately you don’t want to see what style your brother has. Maybe you can do this again.
Ultimately, this is your decision.
After what you write and have given up, I can understand your motives well (Urologe/Androloge). Although I could answer all your questions in this answer “publicly” – and certainly give more information and share experiences. But maybe you’ve come to know that there’s a rich front of crisp and decisive circumcision opponents. I’d like to keep it out of this advice. Therefore: If you like, send me a friendship request. Then I can advise you professionally (see my profile beforehand and read some of my posts).
Ultimately, you need to know this, but I wouldn’t take a two-year experience of your brother as a benchmark. Finally, it is necessary to have a fore skin, the natural condition, healthy, erogenous, sensitive. What you find moist and dirty is the natural lubrication film, the mucous membrane that gets the feeling and gets enough “lubricated” during sex. Self-satisfaction is also made more difficult. You’ll miss her. Because so that it becomes really emotional, you need oil or gliding gel.
The amputation of a healthy part of the body does not bring any advantages. In rare cases, however, circumcision is necessary for medical reasons. That doesn’t sound like you.
So far the real part of the answer. The rest is of course a matter of taste. You can find a trimmed penis optically more beautiful as you say, or it because others have decided over one, do not know otherwise and feel the condition as better as it describes many here (according to the motto “what I don’t know, doesn’t make me hot”). The loss of sensitivity is at least creepy. And women are more important to the man who hangs on the penis than the little skin.
My advice: let it be, make your first sexual experiences. Then you’re probably grateful to have decided to receive. If not? It’s still going off, but it’s not: off.
There is nothing to add to it. I would have guessed you like that.
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I’m younger than you and have been circumcised for about two years. I didn’t need it medically, but I wanted it because it looks better. I can only recommend it to you. since I’ve been circumcised, I’ve been having a real explosion in comparison to before. from the look it is really top and it smells nix more. the girl I think it doesn’t matter as long as nix smells unpleasant and everything works:)
So I would let it go to the style question the doctor.
A circumcision is better for all women because they then get rare “underlying cancer”.
I’d guess about partial circumcisions. In some cases, procedure has to be repeated after a few years, so the foreskin can grow again and I can tell you from my own experience that the 2 weeks after the procedure make absolutely garkeinen fun.
In general, the foreskin already has advantages in particular in self-satisfaction, with sliding gel or other “lubricants” it can be compensated for. As far as sex is concerned, I lack the comparison so I was trimmed with 14 and there was no one yet.
It’s all hygienic. For things like Smegma, you don’t have to worry if you keep a minimum of hygiene.
In the end, you need to know it yourself if it is not medically necessary, I would generally guess of it, but it also has advantages to be circumcised.
So I had no problems after circumcision, had no problems or pain, even the first erections were no problem. So you don’t say that the 2 weeks are not fun
You don’t make a mistake if you let yourself be cut. If your brother and mother advise you why not.
I am circumcised myself and I also give your brother right that feels really great and looks good. Even most girls like it when a boy is cut.
No way. You’ll only have disadvantages.
Which one? There are also advantages…
The benefits are all lies of fanatics who spread religious propaganda. There are zero benefits.
Disadvantages are the risks that cannot be excluded even in circumcisions carried out under optimal medical conditions. These include, even if they occur very rarely, vascular and nerve damages that can lead to loss of sensitivity of the penis to erection disorders.23.06.2023
Meatusstenose:
Many circumcised boys and men suffer from meatus stenosis. This is understood to mean a narrowing of the urethra opening which can impede urination and require a correction operation.
Guards.
Cuts (and also boys) can suffer from convulsions. These arise when pre-skin residues grow in the wound healing with places of the acorn to which they should not grow. Doctors treat these convulsions by tearing them up without anaesthesia. [In severe cases, more complicated correction operations are necessary for severing the convulsions]
Buried penis.
The circumcision can result in a so-called caught or buried penis–Here too much skin has been removed, and so the penis is pressed into the body. This can lead to problems in adulthood if the man does not have enough skin to have a pain-free erection. In some men, the skin even splits up when they have an erection. The circumcision has many more consequences for sexuality that we will treat in a future contribution.
Infections.
The circumcision wound can infect itself. This is particularly dangerous in view of the spread in the hospital of acquired multi-resistant bacteria [bacteria that are resistant to almost all antibiotics available today].
Letting yourself be circumcised is the dumbest thing a person can do.
It’s not just religious fanatics. Some have developed some kind of fetish. It’s not a reason to have something cut off.
The advantages are all lies
What are you talking about? And this with only drawbacks comes from Fanatic circumcision opponents, who would stretch only those for 30 years, instead of letting circumcision carry out, as this is supposedly cheaper.
Meatusstenosis.
Guards.
Cuts (and also boys) can suffer from convulsions. These arise when pre-skin residues grow in the wound healing with places of the acorn to which they should not grow. Doctors treat these convulsions by tearing them up without anaesthesia. [In severe cases, more complicated correction operations are necessary for severing the convulsions
Then you came to a courier. How should the removed preskin grow with the acorn?
Buried penis.
The circumcision can result in a so-called caught or buried penis–Here too much skin has been removed, and so the penis is pressed into the body. This can lead to problems in adulthood if the man does not have enough skin to have a pain-free erection. In some men, the skin even splits up when they have an erection. The circumcision has many more consequences for sexuality that we will treat in a future contribution.
Like I said, you’ve gotten into a courier
Letting yourself be circumcised is the dumbest thing a person can do
And title someone as a liar and stupid, who can be circumcised voluntarily, that testifies to spiritually subexposed
If my parents wished, I’ve already freaked out. Are they your penises or those of your parents? The mother would like it and the whole Bla Bla Bla Bla Bla what you need to read here. Just wait until you can decide completely free for you. If you’ve got a risk-free operation in my eyes, in a very sensitive place in my opinion, where to let the idea put me in a syringe to get what’s so great removed Ekel and Würgereize let it do. finished
Cutting without medical reasons is total nonsense you only have disadvantages.
For women and for you at oral, anal and vaginal GV, it would be better if you were to cut yourself. For SB, it’s better not to let you cut.
Are you circumcised?
Yeah, I had a Phimosis. I’ve been circumcised years ago and don’t regret it. It looks more beautiful and the sex is better but as I said I also had a Phimosis so did earlier sex hurt…
What exactly has everything changed during sex after circumcision?
Why should it be better for him and for women what is the reason women say?