Are people who are isolated at home for a long period of time unable to communicate with others?
Is it bad or can it be good to withdraw sometimes? Or is it always bad and things like that are always a disappointment? How can anyone even claim that such a thing would be a disappointment? Why should someone who just likes to have peace and quiet every now and then disappoint others, even if others don't depend on them, even if there are certain duties that are part of good relationships and you should be nice, but maybe it's the others who don't take it so well because they're the ones who are simply treating you wrong? Even though they know exactly who you are, an authentic, self-confident, likeable person, I think some people just can't cope with their lives and take their frustration out on others and always act harshly towards people when it's not necessary, do you know what I mean?
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Depends. If one withdraws because one suffers, for example, from depression, then this can be negative, but it can also be advantageous to take time for oneself and to refuel the batteries.
This is also not easy to answer. If you are in a relationship, for example, then it can be sobering if a partner withdraws more or more frequently, not as active as the other, it prefers to be at home, instead of experiencing something outside, that can then draw problems close, that is true.
On the other hand, self-sufficiency and a good relationship with yourself proves that if one is able to be alone for oneself, nobody has to interact with one another, but to be able to hold it with oneself without looking at oneself as the worst enemy or to perceive it as compulsion.
disappointments are the result of expectations and do not meet them. Other people have expectations, in themselves, in others and, depending on how high, realistic or unrealistic they are, or how one reacts to that which is not fulfilled, experience more disappointments, the others less. You can’t avoid disappointing someone because much isn’t in our hands, it’s more part of it than your own behavior.
The last thing I honestly don’t understand is that it seems torn out of context as if it were in inner monologue.
– As my mate always says, disappointments set expectations ahead.
Anyone who can be alone and still pursues his goals, according to some old philosophers and modern psychologists, is extremely dangerous – because it can be addicted if you have no people around you. Source: vertraue Nostra.
But at the same time, I am not uncommunicative, but where I draw my words that differs.
Long isolation can, of course, lead to the learning of the social skills or to the insulation of them.
I like being alone for myself – is just calmer and I also know that I am never alone: I am always with myself, I like myself.
if someone follows his goals, how should someone be isolated at home? and what a danger please, it would be just a person who likes the rest
If your goal is to work from home, you will follow it from the isolation of your own barrel. Read C. G. Jung then you understand what I mean, otherwise I can recommend Jordan Peterson 😉 But knowledge is just a holocaust
I’ll discuss as much as I want. And among us, I’m not a “heart” or a “love”. If answers don’t seem to fit, you might think about your questions. I wish you all the good “incognito users”
I don’t mean to be the view that you or anyone else can do and do what it wants to be a functioning society you also have my dear to give instead of playing here better, it would be more appropriate for people to give a halfway reasonable and helpful answer to their questions, because this platform would also be done here, unfortunately, you did not prove to me with your answers, and I’m the one who doesn’t even need it. All right.
I can do what I want here. You don’t need to buy a book, you could google it. And, above all, it makes sense to ask for information;) Again, knowledge is a holocaust, your question I answered and how said another famous personality: The universe is in no obligation to make sense for you – except you seek knowledge, then you may find it.
You throw something into the room, tell what of A but don’t betray B, not even on demand, do you think that’s so okay? If you can’t explain it then just let it be, why should you buy a book now, I don’t understand, but I don’t want to know, I would like to have an answer from you to the actual questions, otherwise this is something too strange that just annoys.
I’m going to the mountains of Morocco to be away from all this pressure. I’m deliberately insulating myself, and that’s it. My opinion is that. Insulation is not basically bad. It can be healing when it happens consciously and controlled! Misunderstandings often arise from different expectations and perceptions. It is important that you do not lose yourself and communicate clearly what you need. It is not your task to meet all expectations, your authentic self counts more than the opinions of others. I don’t care what others think.
The human being is a social being and complete loneliness really makes a little clumping in the long term. A proportional insulation is already more likely, so with some contact to the outside world.
But there is not only the problem that anyone could expect, but also what one has for fears.
If I understand that everyone wants me something evil, it can happen that I, for example, accuse completely strange people in the way, even though they want to do me nix, that, for example, you cannot go out just to protect yourself.
This, in turn, would not help a trap because it would not stop thinking that would bring this back.
But, of course, there is also a positive retreat to process, for example, to think about what you want to do next, so to think about structures for the next day, or to think about life in general or just chill emotionally again.
Alone good question, for example, I only use limited because if you’re too long on this platform it’s annoying emotionally. In this way, it can be useful to withdraw, because a stranger has nothing of it when I answer nervt, b I have nothing of it to excite me because of the network, which also affects some real contacts.