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Ist das eine gute Tradition oder frauenfeindlich?
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It’s not a good tradition.
Here the woman is already taught by little that she is only worth as much as the piece of skin between her legs.
Besides, the investigation itself is of course bullshit.
The state of the hymen does not say anything about whether the woman already had sexual intercourse. First of all, this also goes oral or anal and secondly, the hymen is not a fresh seal which must be pierced for the first time like the foil of a Capri-Sun packing.
It is also not a skin, but a ring of mucous membrane folds around the vaginal entrance. And just like the vagina, this ring is extremely stretchable (always, in case of a case, a whole baby fits through). Cracks can naturally occur or not. And a hole has hymen anyway, otherwise the menstrual blood could not flow off.
So yes, a doctor can clearly see if the vaginal wreath is torn in or not – unless he is blind.
But what he can NOT: derive from whether the person already had intercourse.
There are women who have even born children and whose hymen is still intact.
So yes, I think it’s women-feindlich to send young girls to a fresh seal check every half year. Because it’s not about chastity.
For chastity should not be forced from the outside, but rather something to which one has decided in its own conscious and free decision.
Those who do not want to have sex before marriage in the (Christian) circles I know for reasons of faith are simply believed. Because all others assume that the faith of the person is so deep that chastity is a logical consequence from faith.
Since men have house and yard, there is the idea that they own the entire house, including wife and children. Of course, it must be ensured that the children really belong to their possessions, which in turn is only the case when the sexuality of the woman is controlled and limited. It’s ridiculous if you think about it, because if men were also confined to their own wife, you wouldn’t have to control the woman – because with whom should she have traffic if all men were to go with their own wife only and exclusively?
Unfortunately, the construct is still buried with tradition in some cultures today, and the girl talks that the condition of a body part is something they can be proud of. The whole thing is draped with chic clothes and other goodies.
If you don’t want to have sex unmarried, you can practice it. It’s allowed what’s going on. But this whole control machine, which is and simply remains women’s enemy.
Definitely not a good tradition.
A no longer “intact” bachelor’s cabbage proves nothing, because it “does not tear” first, and secondly, any change does not necessarily happen only in intercourse, but in sports, etc.
An investigation thus makes no sense and this “tradition” teaches that women can lose their “value”. They’re worth less if they don’t have any intact maidens anymore.
It is human despicable and based on ignorance and lack of education.
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Hymen come in many forms and textures, some tear in sports, others stretch with time, some have to be opened surgically and sometimes there is no one at all.
These reviews are nonsense and serve only to control the sexuality and pleasure of the woman.
This tradition is not feminine at all, but a protection for the woman.
In any case, chastity is very important.
My parents and I have therefore also accustomed to the fact that every year in January and July my bachelor skin is tested. My female doctor then carefully looks at whether everything is okay and writes a report for me.
The virginity test before the wedding is also important for the family of the bridegroom to be satisfied.
And if the bachelor’s skin tears at sport, or if you are born without one, you’re worth less? What’s that, ma’am?
And, what does that protect you from?
Where is the protection for the woman?
And what if your bachelor’s skin is broken OHNE you’ve ever had sex or not even had one? Yeah, you’re gonna get hurt or what?
How does the man prove his virginity, since finally his chastity and also the satisfaction of the family of the bride is important?
I don’t understand where the protection should be.
In addition, “intact hymns” and “crisy” are two different things that have little to do with each other. Nothing, you could say.
It would be just as useful if you were to have your chastity examined by someone taking you to breasts every month.
Absolutely feminine. A woman’s sexuality only affects her, no one else. Neither any inflated brethren who represent themselves as machos, or any imams or muftis. In Germany, women live a self-determined life, nobody has anything to say.
Being a tested virgin is a privilege and associated with a lot of honor. I don’t think it’s unpleasant if my young lady’s skin is examined.
This can also be done without brothers and imams and much Tamtam for the public. Allah doesn’t care what you are. But if you want to keep being oppressed by the men, that’s your thing. But maybe you’re here in Central Europe in the wrong country.
It’s stupid. A damaged juvenile skin can also arise during sports or otherwise.
In addition, this whole stupid tradition restricts women in their lifestyle
This is an ancient tradition that should not be practiced any more.
As several docus reported about it, very many young men absent from marriage, but then want a virgin for marriage. Where should they come from?
This tradition is not feminine at all, but a protection for the woman.
In any case, chastity is very important.
My parents and I have therefore also accustomed to the fact that every year in January and July my bachelor skin is tested. My female doctor then carefully looks at whether everything is okay and writes a report for me.
The virginity test before the wedding is also important for the family of the bridegroom to be satisfied.
how old are you, is it your own opinion? It seems that you are repeating the phrases that have been judged for years.
But with the constant repetition of you on every comment it won’t be more correct!
The test is not meaningful.
You have absolutely no idea what the young lady is. It doesn’t tear. You can’t say with this whether a woman had sex or not.
You don’t believe the bullshit
And it doesn’t bother you that your future husband was funny before marriage?
What a double mortal!!!
The truth always remains true and true. My tests are very important to me and I get a lot of respect for it. Without the regular examination of my young lady, I might have even started a boy. I was saved fortunately.
This tradition sucks on the woman’s testimony and tells her she might lie.
in the man they don’t make such a thing.
How does that come?
Why shouldn’t both spouses swear on the koran?
For me it is very important to be a tested virgin. That makes me a bit proud.
Why is that important to you?
Are you a better person?
Is it a proof that you didn’t have sex, although no one can know if you didn’t give another HJ, BJ or Anal you.
Why are not the same requirements for the future husband?
So you’ve been “fitting” for 18-24 years and after the wedding it doesn’t matter.
I don’t think that’s what’s going on except for them.
Being a tested virgin is a privilege and associated with a lot of honor. I don’t think it’s unpleasant if my young lady’s skin is examined.
can I check?
I don’t think you can’t believe everyone, and I want to be certain.
In any case, chastity is very important.
My parents and I have therefore also accustomed to the fact that every year in January and July my bachelor skin is tested. My female doctor then carefully looks at whether everything is okay and writes a report for me.
The virginity test before the wedding is also important for the family of the bridegroom to be satisfied.
Yes I find this very commendable, all good for you and your family
Oh, and if she has a broken skin without ever having sex because it was broken by something else or if she was born completely without? Then what?
Only the examination does not bring any certainty because the juvenile skin is not a skin, but a wreath of mucous membrane folds around the vaginal entrance. And just like the vagina, this wreath is DEHNBAR. Maybe something breaks in, maybe not.
This is not a fresh seal like a Capri-Sun pack.
Yeah, and what if your young lady’s skin is broken without sex, you won’t answer.
Thank you for your justice. 🤗
if the person agrees to it, then it is clear.
It would be different if they were forced to do this or not volunteer…
I’d rather be together with a virgin than vice versa.
But realistically, this is hard to get one and secondly you don’t dare to ask this before…
Before the wedding, the bachelor’s skin is definitely examined. You don’t even need to ask the family to take the bride to a female doctor.
Would you please answer all the questions (sport, why not with the man etc)?
Islam itself is anti-women.
This tradition is not feminine at all, but a protection for the woman.
In any case, chastity is very important.
My parents and I have therefore also accustomed to the fact that every year in January and July my bachelor skin is tested. My female doctor then carefully looks at whether everything is okay and writes a report for me.
The virginity test before the wedding is also important for the family of the bridegroom to be satisfied.
Where is the alleged protection for the woman?
What have to do masturbation and an intact bachelor skin
Probably this comes from the unjustified conception of the woman’s immobility, which is common in your culture. It’s hard to believe that there’s still someone who believes in it today.
My parents protect me from my shoots. Before sex and masturbation.
It is probably too common in Islam and has nothing to do with women’s freedom. In the western world this is judged differently.
That’s just the oppression of women.
Being a tested virgin is a privilege and associated with a lot of honor. I don’t think it’s oppressive when my young lady is being examined.
In any case, chastity is very important.
My parents and I have therefore also accustomed to the fact that every year in January and July my bachelor skin is tested. My female doctor then carefully looks at whether everything is okay and writes a report for me.
The virginity test before the wedding is also important for the family of the bridegroom to be satisfied.
I can’t believe a woman’s doctor’s getting into this.
Good for you.