Should I look for a new job?
I've been working at my current company for almost four years, but there are always problems. I get along well with my colleagues, but my boss seems to have a problem with me. When I was hired, I naturally denied the question about whether I was planning to have children. However, my girlfriend and I have been expecting a child for two months, which my boss doesn't like at all. Ever since he found out, he's been making stupid comments like saying I should take a paternity test and lots of other things. Yesterday I found out that he withdrew a customer order I was assigned to and didn't have an explanation. My colleague had a similar experience when he became a father in November last year.
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In the current labor market, you should not give yourself a backward bullshit from employers. At your point, I would definitely update the application documents and send out a few applications for suitable job offers! You make this out of the very relaxed position that you are still in an unannounced working relationship. If you don't find a good job, you'll stay where you are now. But it can also be that you find a really great alternative and then realize that this situation was exactly the push you needed to get the courage for a change that brings you on!
how important/strong is camera to colleagues
if that outweighs, stay
ifb not and just when a baby comes soon, look at workstation with short driveway around
an hour more sleep time(30 min shorten per journey) can be decisive just then and you can quickly get home in case of need.
if it remains with these actions, turn to the business council(even that with paternity should actually suffice)
best diary about sayings/leads and retracted orders with order number lead
and after 1-2 weeks as a collection presentation
whether you change or not
if you just go, he just crawls the next. Why is a disclosure perhaps sensitive
I don't think your boss seems to have kids? I'd call him directly if he makes a spell.
What exactly do you mean? Do you want to say that my wife is going out, or how exactly can I understand that?
If I noticed it doesn't change anything, I'd find another job. Maybe you get more pay and a great boss!
I would like to address your boss directly to it – possibly together with your colleague, who did so and ask him what fears he has when it comes to fathers. Depending on how he reacts or if he has no good explanation for the changed tasks / withdrawn customer orders, you can then tell him directly that a situation of life can change within four years. Either you can undo his concerns or you're looking for a new job. If he has a problem with fathers – for whatever reason – this will probably not change.
As long as this does not happen more often, or otherwise critical… If it doesn't suit you, just leave them
If you are dissatisfied, you should change and improve yourself as financially as possible.