Should I ask her how she feels about a relationship between us?
I've been dating a 24-year-old woman for about a month and a half, and we're already very intimate. We get along great and enjoy our time together. We started dating with the idea of ​​a monogamous relationship in mind. I don't want to ruin anything, so I'm asking her about a relationship now. Do you think that could backfire? Or should I just ask her nicely how she feels about it? 🙂 Thanks
I wouldn’t give a name to this current state. It does not always have to be blurred to the smallest detail and provided with a status.
I understand you super, share with each other what you like and I would leave it for the first time.
There are only 1.5 months and there is no rush. Take your time. The conversation about this will come by itself. Unplanned.
Thanks, how many months should you say it?
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You can’t say that. Sometimes it comes to the topic immediately and sometimes never. Then it went into the relationship without words.
If there’s nothing at all, talk about it in a familiar moment.
If it goes well, don’t try to “define” it! Enjoy what you have; It doesn’t matter if you’re together or if you’re flirting or what you call it. Don’t break it with questions!
But I want a relationship because I can make sure that’s just something between us.
What you want has nothing to do with how she reacts to your question! If she doesn’t want a relationship to you, it’s all broken! You need to know if you want to risk it! Nobody can guarantee you anything!
Sounds very good. I think I’d ask you. No Risk no fun🙃. But do what feels best for you
Questions cost nothing