My nephew comes to our house once a week and of course he plays and leaves a mess behind when he leaves. He doesn't clean it up and I have to do it. He's 3 years old, shouldn't he do it himself?
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We always make a challenge for young guests.
Come on, we clean up together – the one who gets more tidy gets a reward (small chocolate or something). Then they have to clean up immediately.
It doesn’t matter
Clean up together at age. And so that not in the end is such a huge chaos, it can be done in between
“Before we get the building blocks, we’ll clean up the cars first.”
The clears out 2 boxes and throws puzzle on the floor
Well, he has to learn first, so clear up with him
I have to clean it up after him
Then ask him to help
I don’t know
Then you can only get behind if you can’t say that.
I have nothing to tell him
Then tell him if he doesn’t help he won’t play with it next time
He doesn’t do anything I have to clean up
He can’t go home alone, he’s got to help.
It’s just going home
It is insane to teach no rules; This also includes cleanup. It doesn’t have to be that he makes it perfect for us. You can accompany it. But he must realize that there are rules and he must learn to follow them.
he doesn’t even have to clean up
You can hardly influence what happens among the parents’ legs. But if he is with you, he must follow your rules.
Transfer it to life as an adult: He gets no limits at home. Then he visits a foreign country with another culture and behaves like at home. It is easy to understand that this is not enough for him.
The laws of the region in which one stays apply. If you shoot someone down in Texas, it won’t help you policing on the laws of your home country – you send you to the death cell because the local law applies.
No, not really.
Not even a six-year-old should clean up ALL on his own, you should just make it clear to him that he can be a little more respectful, and maybe pack a two car back in a box or something..
It doesn’t matter
He doesn’t have to, with DREI years!!
He doesn’t have to clean up anything I have to do
He doesn’t care
It’s bullshit what she says. Mine goes to the mother of the day and even there he has to help clean up and when you tell the child you do this together and show him “we give up the things, clean them up in the box” he learns that too. I can even clean up the dishwasher with 2 because he likes to help and doesn’t know why you can’t expect it from a child with 3. He can throw it through the area and how it comes out of the box, it goes back in. But if you don’t know if you’re supposed to help in the household, it’s just questionable alone he can definitely not do it!!! You have to help him
Your opinion. Okay, but I think that should be kids. Mine is two and does. I don’t expect much, but he’s just taking his building blocks and throwing them into a box with me. This is not too much for a child of 2 or 3.
But in kindergarten, no one gives him something behind
At least he should make it with you. Tell him it’s gonna be cleaned up when you’ve finished playing and clear up with him. That’s how I do it with my two year old. I’ll get the box, etc, explaining to him that we’re going to clean up and play before everything’s in the box or cleared away and of course help him with it and then it works really well. Finding with 3 can be expected to at least help to clear his stuff away. He won’t be able to do that, but as I said, he’ll help and make it together you can expect.
He goes without helping
Then tell him. And make it with him….
He always gets an extra sausage
Then bad luck. Then clean up. Kind of like being a toddler with 27 and not even getting his life
No extra sausage
Then make yourself what you are 27
Otherwise there is nothing to eat
Your mom? You’re mentally on a normal stand or why let’s tell you about 27. Sorry to blame yourself
My mom says I have to do it
Says who? He’s 3! You can’t expect him to do it alone. You don’t even want to make your household…. You have to stop him and say let’s do it together but if you can’t get through with a child of 3 nobody can help you
I have to do it
No. With 3 everything is allowed 😂
He is no longer a baby when my mother came with the garbage bag
I don’t think so. A little education is of course a must. But that’s not the case with three.
He also played and is no longer a baby
Not with me
No he has to help
Yes, I do. If you played with him, it’s not worth cleaning up.
I’m not going to be able to clean it up afterwards
Many children with 3 years cannot clean up alone. Not even 10 or 12 😉
Your expectations are pretty high. Clean up together can possibly still be possible, but even this is not a standard.
I am not his service girl
He’s a kid. Now you act like one!
Well, I had to do it
You can’t dry the dishes, but do you want a toddler of selfishness?
Remember?
I don’t think…
I’m not going to let him go
With 3 years you can’t do this independently (no matter what). At the age, an elderly person (teenager, adult) still has to help with many things.
Show him step by step what to clean up
Clean up his stuff together with him
With 3 years you just start to learn how to clean up something or how to cleanse something (with which you played before).
He doesn’t care
You don’t do anything, and you live with your parents and ask that question:
Of course I did what I changed
The question is just 4!!!! Days old.
You expect a three-year-old to clean up, you ask 27 but if you need to help at home in the household.
Are you not absolutely embarrassed by such questions yourself?
I don’t know
Then you’d lie in all the questions… that of course you can just troll here.
No, that’s not enough to know someone
It’s enough to leave your questions….
You don’t know me personally
The value user only needs to read your questions…
No vote
But you’re doing it to our problem because you keep asking so stupid questions.
That is my problem and not your problem
Not because you are disabled, but because you are absolutely selfish and ridiculously jealous of your 3 year old nephew and that as an adult woman of soon 28 years.
But I don’t want your answer you don’t help me anyway you’re just doing me down because I’m disabled
But no one asks…