Schwimmen gehen mit Junge doch plötzlich bekommt man seine Periode, was tun?
Hallo,
ich habe einen Jungen gefragt, ob wir zusammen schwimmen gehen wollen. Aber jetzt habe ich meine Periode bekommen und ich weiß nicht, was ich jetzt machen soll. Soll ich ihm sagen, dass ich nicht schwimmen kann, weil ich meine Periode bekommen habe und ihn fragen, ob wir etwas anderes machen wollen (das wäre mir aber sehr unangenehm) oder soll ich Tampons ausprobieren (wovor ich irgendwie total angst habe. Ich habe nämlich noch nie welche benutzt und ich weiß nicht, ob das bei mir klappt)? Was würdet ihr machen?
Danke für eure Antworten und eure Hilfe:)
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I’d tell him. To have the period must finally be normalized as if it is also only unpleasant.
I understand that you could be ashamed (because of society and the embossed message, to consider the period as something to be ashamed of)
But what does he want to do?
Do you think he finds it disgusting? Then he’s not the right guy anyway.
I think that due to lack of education at this age (~15), the period is also perceived by women as disgusting. Would you like to teach me a better one, but how did you feel that as a minor?
I’m a minor.
I think that education in schools has improved significantly and has become more open.
When I was in the 8th grade, both sexes were well informed about the period.
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Try the tampon, because you don’t need fear. And if everything sparks perfectly, you have not only lost a fun day of swimming, but also your irrational fear.
If the tampon – whatever it is – doesn’t, you should move the meeting or try a menstruation cup.
Good luck and fun!
Nothing to thank!
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Just say that you don’t like it right now and you don’t want to swim right now for health reasons 🙂
Just tell him what’s going on – his reaction shows you at the same time whether he’s mature enough to spend your time with him.
I would try the tampons, but before the appointment (so still buy them today).
If this is not the only way to cancel the two possibilities completely or to live with alternatives.
So I’m male and can’t tell you anything about the problem
But you should be careful to give alternatives either to say yes I can suggest on that and the day staging or something else.
If he’s smart he understands it, otherwise just make sure that you don’t give him the feeling that you don’t want to, so say that you find it a pity if you have to postpone it and suggest alternatives directly, and then that’s gonna happen.
I’d try tampons first. But if you don’t want to do that (that’s completely ok) or if it doesn’t work, I’d just tell him the truth and ask if you can do something else together.
Tell him that swim doesn’t go with you and ask him what he thinks of cinema.