Pregnant and scared?

I'm in my 19th week and my next ultrasound appointment isn't until my 22nd week. I'm so worried right now about whether the little one is really okay. My last ultrasound was in my 9th week and luckily everything was fine then. But I'm so scared that they'll tell me at the appointment that the heart has stopped beating or that there isn't enough amniotic fluid, etc. I'm also worried that I might have an undetected infection, which could have been detected earlier and then it would be too late, or that I have a shortened cervix and there will be serious consequences. Can you even tell if you have a shortened cervix? I test twice a week with pH tests, but so far the values ​​have always been normal. I've had a miscarriage before and actually had a really good feeling about my current pregnancy at the beginning, but for the last few days I've been so worried and scared. Sometimes I feel a bit of pressure down there and sometimes I get strong pulling/stabbing pains in my lower abdomen. I also told my gynecologist over the phone, but she said it was normal, and as long as I wasn't in pain, I could wait until my next appointment. My anxiety is really bothering me, and I wanted to ask if anyone has any tips on how to deal with it.

Thank you in advance

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Sabo8809
1 year ago

Good morning,

Let you say that almost every pregnant woman in between is afraid that something could not vote. I remember how worried I was when I didn’t feel my belly dwellers for a while – it’s normal. The pressure and pulling that are the bands, your womb will stretch out and you will feel that.

With the background of miscarriage, I can understand that you are worried a lot, but you don’t need to – even measuring the PH value is superfluous believe me – you’re trying to keep control of something, I know the feeling, but you’re just crazy.

Breathe through and continue all the good for you 😘

luibrand
1 year ago

Now, your fears (hypochondria) cause the first psychosomatic symptoms. You should get that under control, otherwise another FG is not excluded. Trust your doctor.

Allyluna
1 year ago

Hi!

I can understand you very well…. I also had a miscarriage and a rather traumatic event in the closest circle of friends, which has overshadowed my own pregnancy with fear. I have actually put on a fishing sound that calmed me.

In the subsequent pregnancy, trust in my body was so strong that I didn’t even use it anymore.

Happy for you!

sarah3
1 year ago

if it calms you let stop U.S.

Kugelflitz
1 year ago
Reply to  sarah3

Don’t be done.

sarah3
1 year ago
Reply to  Kugelflitz

Per IGEL natural

Romuri
1 year ago

would then also consider the ultrasound as its own power. Or you’re going to a midwife.

Kugelflitz
1 year ago
Reply to  Romuri

It’s forbidden.

Romuri
1 year ago
Reply to  Kugelflitz

But the midwife can check if the child is good.

Kugelflitz
1 year ago

Not everything, but a few things can check them, yes.