schwanger mit 15?
hallo ich habe vor 2 tagen einen schwangerschafts test gemacht und er wahr positiv,naja bin 15 und ich weiß nicht wie es passieren konnte hatten immer ein gummi, das problem ist ich wollte morgen beim frauenarzt anrufen aber ich weiß nicht wie ich das sagen soll am telefon,und das zweite problem ist,das meine neue gesundheitskarte erst nächste woche ankommt meint ihr ich kann trotzdem einen termin bekommen? bitte nur hilfreiche antworten
Hey, you’re in shock, of course, that’s completely understandable. Did you make a test because your period didn’t come? The female doctor will be able to tell you more. Apart from pregnancy, there is still quite a start, so you don’t see much in ultrasound. Can you tell your mother or an adult? It’s a lot for you alone! Write again how you continue and much strength for the school! You’re probably there now, or 👋
I don’t want to tell my mom I’m so afraid to tell her that
Okay, what are you afraid of in the worst case for a reaction, how could it react in the best case? It’ll be a shock for her. What do you want from her?
Hello, did it work with the doctor today? What did he say? Which week are you? Were you there alone or did you tell your mother? She’s up to you, she told you. It’ll be like that now. Much courage!
And much strength to you and dear greetings!
Hey, it’s a lot of courage to trust her. Once it’s out, it’s going on. If she blew the first shock, you can talk about it. Yes, and then the appointment with the female doctor. Maybe she would even go?
Yes I have, I have a woman doctor appointment on Monday at 8:00 and I think I will tell her after the appointment
Wow, you got a great mom! But yes, I believe you’re still afraid to tell her. And yet again – with her you are no longer alone. You write here, but I mean in real life 💖 When would a good time to talk to her?
she told me when I had my first friend I should get pregnant sometime unintentionally, then she doesn’t care how but still fear to tell her
In case of such an emergency, so if you plan to prevent the child, you can also bring a health card and also be pushed in, and also abortions are to be paid privately afterwards anyway. If you want to get the child, it doesn’t matter when you have an appointment.
I do not want
But abortion is not the solution or how would you find it if your parents murdered you when you weren’t out yet?
Then call and say what’s going on, you don’t have much time for an abortion if you need one. There’s only a little time.
I’m scared now. You’re insulting around here and you think you’re in the position to report to who? Go to your own front door
Watch that I don’t tell you to accuse me of insulting
what do you understand, not that you don’t care about your mind?!
Yes but abortion naja no matter but there are enough other ways like e.g. baby flap adoption etc
Your opinion is not in demand here and does nothing about it.
So no, you must/must and should not express it in need from respect for this child.
It’s not a kid yet. Stop being so human, it can’t even think or feel at the stage. And stop insulting me, are you still? You don’t think so, you’re insulting me as a child raper and a mass murderer? Although I have not done the one or the other. And you make a child that is already insecure, a bad conscience about your fanatic, religious beliefs. I’ll tell you one last time, I want you to go here, or I’ll report you to the moderators, then you’re completely banished. This is not an expression of opinion, this is rush, insult and gas lighting.
Besides, I also don’t want to be children at the moment but it should come to this, for example, the rubber tears then it is so I would never allow That the woman then drives my opinion is abortion murder and I must say my opinion
Yes Clearly child- raped mass murderer I am clear for the death penalty but the little ding has never done anyone what can it not yet
No.
I’m talking about everyone having a right to life
Her parents were not 15 years old. Listen to the child making a bad conscience. You’ve even been prevented, something went wrong. This way you talk to kids is not possible. Do you want to talk to you like that as a child and talk to you like that? If you can’t talk normally, please move Leine, this is far away from acceptable.
thank you
Hello
The first step is of course to have gynecologists and pregnancy confirmed. Are you sure the pregnancy test is positive? Did the line appear immediately or only after a time? How long have you been overdue? It may be only a defect or a so-called evaporation line.
Of course you will also have an appointment without your health card (especially in such a situation). You can also call your KK and send a bill to the gynecologist. Some gynecologists simply record your data via your ID and then you can track the health insurance card.
You have to pay for an abortion anyway.
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If you are pregnant, you can get advice on both a pregnancy break and a support to keep the child.
I recommend you contact ProFamilia. You can also have your parents consulted on site free of charge and without knowledge. Here are the locations:https://www.profamilia.de/off-site
They also offer many information on this online:https://www.profamilia.de/themes/pregnancies
https://www.profamilia.de/off-site/berlin/beratungszentrum-berlin/pregnant
profemina also offers a test by finding out if an abort would come into question. In the end, you can also leave your email and receive advice from them.
There are also enough people who accompany you and support you if you want to keep it:https://www.familieplanung.de/pregnantschaft/pregnantschaftsvorsorge-und-begleitung/
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I hope I could help you 🙃
Good luck 🍀
LG
Jojo
Hey, I’ve been overdue for 4 days, then I’ve made a test and the second line karm stop right, thanks for your helpful answer ☺️
Yes, he’s positive.
How are you now?
Call the female doctor at 3 p.m.
The health insurance can send a bill to the gyn.
You can call your health insurance, and you can find the number on the Internet.
Say that you have to go to the gym and don’t have a card, and please fax the one bill.
You need the fax number from the gynecologist (find on his homepage)
At the Gyn you say that you’re unintentionally pregnant and need an appointment tomorrow.
The gynecologist must confirm your pregnancy.
With this confirmation, you will make an appointment with a pregnancy conflict counselling.
There you can explain everything you have, what you have for your support, etc. you will also be informed about the end of a break.
You need a confirmation that you were with the conflict advice, so it’s important that you go to a consultancy office that can issue it.
So zb proFamilia or one of the Caritas/Diaconia.
Your gynecologist can definitely give you contact addresses.
With this advice certificate you go to the gymn that performs the abortion, that unfortunately must be another one than that which has determined the pregnancy.
You can either get a contact list from your gynecologist or the consultancy office.
In your case, the costs are taken over by the state.
You have to call any health insurance company or go by yourself and have a cost-transfer certificate issued.
It’s just a formal thing, don’t worry.
This is a lot of time now and you don’t have so much time.
But if you decide to break down, I don’t think it’s bad and no drama.
You won’t suffer your life under the abort.
The vast majority of women process the abortion well and he does not burden it.
And importantly, you decide.
Your body.
Nobody else decides.
Not your friend and not your parents.
You don’t have to tell them if you don’t want to.
And you don’t need your understanding of the abort at any time.
Report if you have any questions
Thank you. For your help, that really helped me more
Report if you ask
Thank you.
Saying on the phone as the situation is and the issue with the health insurance card is very likely to be clear when you take it. time of practice.
You can submit the card.
It’s probably hard for you to be pregnant so young. Pannen can happen unconsciously.
You simply say on the phone: “Hello, wife… here, I had a positive pregnancy test a few days ago and would want to confirm this once / to clarify it medically”
The most important question: Do you want to keep the child or drive away?
I do not want
Then you have to go to the doctor. You can drive down to the 12th SSW.
What a question, it’s 15 , … abortion, of course.
So, sportsman, give them 15 kids. I asked the question to help the questioner better.
… yes, there are these.
No, but there is a special rule in abortion. You can make yourself smart.
I know
Yesterday evening too much RTL II (“Teeny mothers when children get children”) gloated or what?
Call your gynecologist / gynecologist, explain to him/her your situation and let you advise for abortion (you have written further below that you do not want the child).
You can also read the eGK later in practice.