Schulsozialarbeit – was erwähnen?
Heyy,
also, ich muss in ein paar Tagen wieder zur Schulsozialarbeit, und wir sprechen dann über svv, da ich es letztes mal leider leicht angedeutet hat, und sies dann herausgefunden hat. Ich weis nicht was ich dann genau sagen soll, da ich in den letzten Wochen relativ stark auch getriggert werde. Zudem sind seit neuem auch andere dumme Gedanken und auch Selbstmord Gedanken dazugekommen, wovon sie aber nichts weis, diese aber relativ stark sind zwischendurch.
Hat jemand eine Idee was ich machen/sagen soll (ich weis echt nicht weiter)?
Bitte keine dumme Kommentare, und danke schon mal 🙂
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You wanted to talk to your mother a week ago, why don’t you do that?
You keep running into your misfortune, it comes one to the other.
You’re telling the truth about school social work, are you always going to continue this way and destroy your life? Tell me you got kicked and you have suicide thoughts.
Please also your mother, there is help, please don’t hesitate.
”… why don’t you do it?’ because I didn’t say it intentionally. I said something about what she found out, but I can’t tell my mom because I can’t guess how she’s taking it or reacting.
No matter how she takes it, she loves you and wants you to be good, there will be a solution. Write a letter to her if you can’t say it.
Thanks for the ⭐
For the first time it’s incredibly strong of you that you’re looking for this help, you can be very proud of it!
I’d just tell her how it is, and since she seems to know about it, you can tell her if it’s hard for you to say that she should ask questions.
It’s important that you tell the truth, otherwise you can’t be helped.
I wish you good luck in the conversation and all the good for the future!
LG
Hey,
it sounds like you’re in front of a really challenging situation, and it’s really strong from you that you’re looking for help and thinking openly about how you can approach the conversation. It is important that you are honest with your school social worker, especially about the thoughts that are pushing you, including the idea of suicide. They are there to help you, and the clearer the image they have from your situation, the better they can support you.
Here are some suggestions on how to address the conversation:
1. **Preparation**: Maybe consider what you want to say. Sometimes it helps to record sting points so you don’t forget anything important during the conversation.
Two. **Openness**: try to be as open as possible. You don’t have to say anything at once, but be honest with the things that burden you most.
3. ** Ask question**: If you are not sure how to get support, ask. Sometimes we don’t know what resources are available until we ask.
4. **Express feelings**: It’s okay to say you’re overwhelmed or insecure. This helps the social worker to understand where you stand and how they can best help you.
Five. **Safety plan**: Possibly discuss a plan for moments when thoughts are particularly strong. This can include various strategies to deal with acute crises.
It’s really brave of you to ask for help and face your problems. You have a right to support and care. If you feel that the conversation with school social work is not enough, do not hesitate to use external assistance, such as a therapist or an advisory body.
Happy for you!
Thank you for your answer. I don’t know if I’ll be able to speak openly about it, because I’m extremely afraid of what they can follow.. I generally have great problems opening up to others..
It is understandable that it can be difficult to talk about personal problems, especially if one is afraid of the possible consequences and generally has problems with opening up others. However, there are ways to overcome these hurdles.
It is also important to understand that you are not alone and there is help and support when you need it. Sharing your feelings and thoughts can be a liberation and help you find ways to deal with your problems.
Remember that it’s okay to get help and that there are steps to overcome your fears and open you to others. Give yourself the time and space you need to go through this process and be patient with yourself.
ok, will try. Many thanks 🙂