Fear of school?
Hello,
I urgently need help.
I have been avoiding school for over 2 years out of fear,
No matter how much I want to, I just can't and I don't want to go to school for the life of me.
It's not primarily about getting up, laziness or stupidity, but simply this inner fear.
I have been going to therapy for over 7 years of my life and it has never really helped (2 inpatient stays).
I really don't know how to deal with it because my grades keep dropping, even though I was always an A student, and I can't live like this anymore.
Greetings, Marlene
PS: If any boomers write something like "just go away," just leave it alone;)
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Only one thing helps against your fear: You have to take a decision and build willpower. You have to defeat this fear, you have to confront it. If you always stay in the role of the victim (not meant negatively, but just so that you remain passive and consider yourself a victim of circumstances), then you won’t get out. You must understand that the problem is your thought patterns and that only you have the influence on changing your thinking. You have to actively work on fear and deal with it. No miracle healing will come from the outside.
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How to help you if the therapy doesn’t work? I can’t understand myself.
What plans do you have for your life, what profession do you want to choose and then go to work, daily, or not?
Is citizen money your plan? And there you have to make appointments. What do your parents say?
My parents are disappointed and titled me as a fucking child and crap piece, my dreams have been abandoned because of my illnesses, and it’s in planning to do some fucking job to not have to get a citizen’s money 🙂
I find the whole situation very difficult, and can’t give you any advice despite life experience and mother of two children.
It’s in your hand, it’s your life, not your parents.
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