Will my mother's gynecologist tell me if I'm still a virgin at 15?
Hey, I have a gynecologist appointment tomorrow and my mum wants to know if I'm still a virgin. Unfortunately I'm not a virgin anymore and my mum will be furious. Will the gynecologist tell my mum if I'm still a virgin? Will the doctor say she's sworn to confidentiality and isn't allowed to tell my mum? Because then my mum will already know if it's so obvious. Will my mum still come with me to the examination room??? Please answer my questions, I'm scared.
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Hi :-
Why does your mother want to know if you’re a virgin? This is absolutely none of her concern, because it is your body and not her. In addition, it is not possible to test whether this is torn by sexual intercourse or by other circumstances on the basis of a torn young skin. Some girls don’t have a juvenile skin from birth.
Since you’re 15 years old, it’s for the female doctor or the female doctor’s medical duty to silence, that is to say that he must not tell anything without your mother’s consent.
Whether your mother goes to the examination room or not, is by the way DEINE’s decision. You decide that alone, not your mother. If you do not want to do this, your mother has to accept whether she wants or not. You are no longer a little girl, which you have to lead on your hand, but you develop into a young and independent woman, who can slowly make her own decisions and want to make sure, right?
I hope I could help you a bit and calm you down! If you have any questions about the visit to a doctor or need help, you can also contact me at any time 🙂
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Thank you very much I appreciate 🫶🏻
Supi ^^ Please remain strong and so translate and think about your good rights <3
Every doctor has confidentiality and this is also regulated by law! Your mother doesn’t have to go in with you, because you’re old enough! You don’t need to be afraid, and your mother must accept it!
The “Jungfernhäutchen” – a lot of noise around nothing! – einhorn
Read it out, here are some first extracts:
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Nevertheless, you should make sure your mom stays out from the start. I would call your own doctor and ask that ER insist on investigating yourself on your own.
Generally, however, it would be important for you to find a way to free yourself from the guardianship, because obligation to silence means that doctors are not allowed to tell her about your will. Why you don’t want to, you’ll have to explain to your mother by yourself…
How about you use the opportunity to tell the truth, in the presence of the doctor, she’s probably not gonna freak out. If so the doctor can explain that it is quite normal and you can talk about the pill.
I know that sounds so bad, but I don’t know. With your mother’s back-forest thinking, it must be a stop.
The Mother Hattie treatment room didn’t lose anything
I know. The other day, I had a girl in the hair whose mother regularly goes to Gyn to check if she is a “good Muslim”. The question also smells suspiciously. Apparently there are women’s doctors who are not quite right in the colonel.
What’s the mother doing if she’s still a virgin? Nothing. Mine doesn’t know when, who and if I had my first time. She doesn’t care.
No, why would he? What’s the doctor got? I was also a minor and not a virgin for a long time, but he never said anything to my mother, also called silence. Why would your mother be mad? That’s totally normal. Mine is always caring with me as a women’s doctor with 15 to get my pill written. You might think too bad about your mother. She just wants the best for you.
No, he can’t. You can insist your mother is waiting outside the door
With 15 you can go to the FA alone, and if you don’t want, your mother won’t come to the examination room. A FA must not tell your mother if you are still a virgin. I don’t know if everyone’s holding on. In Muslims there are probably such investigations…
No, he can’t.
No, your mother doesn’t have to go to the treatment room. normal waiting the mother in the waiting room