Right decision if I was happy at that moment?
When I went to the gynecologist, I was happy because the embryo in my stomach looked cute and everything was okay.
At the counseling center during the abortion consultation and the thought of abortion makes my stomach tighten and I don't feel well.
Is it right to listen to your heart and not your head?
My head says no: the man I'm pregnant with doesn't want to have any more contact with me if I don't have an abortion and financially it's not the best because I'm a student.
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Dear Lizzi, when you were with the female doctor, you feel joy and happiness about your baby’s life. It looked so sweet and it makes you feel good to know that your child is okay!
You didn’t feel comfortable at the consultancy and during the conversation about abortion. What does that tell you?
You’re a sensitive young woman and you’re clearly aware of what’s right for you. And you can still listen to your heart! You live with this, your heart! Take care of your heart signs! Even if the circumstances are not quite optimal at the moment, it will continue well for you and the little one. Many young women, including students, get their child even without partners and it is really feasible.
You may also accept all the help, including the financial support, for that they are there. A good consultancy will inform you about this, you can also find a lot of important things on the web.
Keep your strength! You’re doing this really well, your baby too!
Hello
The embryo may look sweet. But you become single, financially it doesn’t look good and you’re a student. So it will be difficult.
Of course, if you choose this path, you must look at an abortion right.
Kind regards
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You should have a chat with this user who is exactly in the same situation as you. (Friend/Exfreund wanted to take it off otherwise contact termination)
Personally, at the time, I was safe to take off, and I didn’t doubt one second.
Yeah, 100%. You showed feelings, you love this child that grows in you. That’s a good sign.
But you have to look for help so you have a good future with your child. The father will have to make his contribution, he won’t come around. And if he doesn’t want anything to do with you, he can do you.
I’ll push you all the thumbs. 👍🏼👍
You have to be with your head and heart if you want to run away. Otherwise, you will probably not be able to live well with your decision and develop mental problems.
In itself, it would be an option to release the child for adoption, but I have the feeling that you wouldn’t be able to cope with.
Your heart chose the child. So it would be better to consider how you can make sure it works. There is child money and the producer is also obliged to pay – the youth office will help you to enforce your claims if necessary. You can apply for amazement and there are many flea markets for children because you just need them for a short time. The Youth Office can also help you to find a child and how it can work in parallel with the university. There are also some associations that help mothers.
Oh, dear.
That’s exactly a decision I really don’t want to stand before.
You don’t have anyone who can advise you and know you?
I’m afraid you’re having a big problem if you don’t listen to your heart, and you’ll see it all over your head. I know one that was only head-loaded, driven off and left heart behind. It wasn’t good for her long time.
That’s why I advise you to listen to your heart, but paired with good advice, because of course a baby needs to be supplied day and night. I understand every woman who wants to run away and does, but it would never have come into question for me and if that had happened to my daughter, I would have stood parat for Grandma without if and but. If you know that you are supported, it would be a tendency to: I keep the child….
Whoever thinks about abortion should not look at the embryo before…
You know that your life looks totally different depending on your decision. It’s difficult!
It’s really not different. Before abortion, pregnancy must first be confirmed and this does not happen without ultrasound. Of course you can just make a blood test, but the female doctor must know in what week she is to say how much time she has for an abortion and that does not go without ultrasound and to see the embryo.
Yes, it was different. You don’t have to let the pregnancy confirm. In practice, where the abortion is to be carried out, an ultrasound is made anyway and as a rule the screen is rotated so that the woman cannot see the image.
Why not? I looked at this, and I knew immediately that I wanted to run away and be.
There are probably also the pregnancy hormones… I’d think through both scenarios and look at what you’d feel more uncomfortable and what you’d regret. You shouldn’t just run away because your friend is pushing you to keep the child! Financially and generally there are also support options, as well as advice and the family may also help, you can guess that.
Stop your heart! You want the child ♥️
If he had bad luck, he should’ve gone over a condom. If he has to give it to the youth office as a father, he will cut off beautifully haha – deserves
Listen to your heart and no one else. Do what you want and not what any man wants
If you want the child, keep it. He must have numbers anyway, whether he wants or not. In the end, you’ll regret a break.
What you’re describing isn’t the heart, it’s the subconscious and the abdominal brain. These process more data than consciousness. He can only say from my life that it is worth listening to it.
And the relationship with this man will go into the fractures like that.
You can do it anyway. I did it too. My son was born two months after my Abitur. I made three state exams and made careers. A nice man married, not my son’s father, he was also gone, and everything is fine. Go to Profamilia and let you know what’s up to you. And then decide.