ByVadimkn
I have a son (2) and daughter 3.5.
My daughter often says, "I belong to my mother," "I love my mother, my brother loves you." But if I pay more attention to my son than to her, she becomes super affectionate and loves my father.
She is really very charismatic, pretty and extraordinary, while the son is whiny and negative.
Should I continue to pay more attention to my son so that she appreciates me too?
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That would be emotional extortion and emotional abuse.
Di both children have to be 100% loved without restriction.
She needs another attention at 3.5 years than her 2-year-old brother.
You just have to make sure she gets her quality time with you.
In certain situations, however, a child also needs his mother.
And you must accept that the binding of a child (independent of the sex of a child) will always be more intimate in the first few years (mostly until puberty).
You want your children to “estimate you” emotionally.
I can’t believe that I have to tell a parent that; Love for the child is unconditional, point.
There is no more or less, there is only 100%, always.
Otherwise, you harm your child, who perceive this very well, that doesn’t even have to be pronounced, and so destroyed for the rest of life
You shall pay the same attention to both children, that you owe them as a father. And you both explain that you love her. You don’t make a child jealous so that it hangs more on one. Jealousy is something very negative, it could cause them to develop inferior feelings, the brother could start hating them, it could lead to dispute.
You have to treat both children.
for example my little sisters 3 and 8
if the 8 year old with the mutti cuddly comes the 3 year old and would like to steal the show so it is more a jealousy ding
which is certainly the case with your daughter, and you both have to treat the same because if your daughter gets more attention she will not accept it at any time that the sohn who gets developed a superiority complex
(write from own family experience)
If she says so, just to annoy you. Children know what parents like to hear.
The rest seems to me invented.