Red stains after wine, but not after spirits?

Hello, most wines (except some white wines) and some beers cause me to get red spots on my face, neck, décolleté, and sometimes my arms. These spots stand out sharply from the rest of my skin. They also become very hot.

At first I thought it was an alcohol intolerance, but with stronger alcohol like gin or vodka such symptoms do not occur.

This reaction has only occurred in the last 2 years or so.

So is it not the alcohol but something else?

I've heard about histamine intolerance. The drinks I react to most strongly are very high in histamine. Could this be related?

I don't drink much or often, but I do enjoy it now and then. I'm currently staying away from wine. Or should I just stay away from all alcohol, even if I'm not experiencing symptoms?

What do you advise me to do?

Thank you for the answers!