process of healing from heartbreak?
Hey, I've been struggling with a broken heart for quite some time now, and I still love the same person I did five years ago. We haven't had any contact for almost two years, except for five months in between (and then only as friends), and now we haven't had any contact for half a year. I'm wondering if you can even love a person if you don't interact with them at all, but only get secondhand information, like the type of person, etc. Or is it some kind of emotional dependency? And is the reason I can't get over it because I somehow can't believe it's even happening? Because, of course, I really want to. It's not normal to think about a person every day who's no longer actively in your life, is it? Does anyone have psychological expertise in these topics and can try to answer these questions, or does anyone have any tips for my last question? I hope I was able to explain the situation clearly & thanks in advance 🙂
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In the way thinking is ill-defined, it is also not an emotional dependency, it is wishful thinking that is how to love actor.
One loves only an image of one’s own ideas, what if you can do that, but then take it as a fanaticism that doesn’t become a reality, yes that hurts, but love grief isn’t worth my darling, it’s always worth hearing the old song.
hmm doesn’t know if it’s a picture of my imagination, I know that the person is a very great person in himself, because I get along all day, as she is on it, so I just love the people in itself, not only old memories because it’s very difficult I think
yes you love the presentation he would give you this kindness which he does not want to do on this kind of way as you want it and that is exactly the point of the rush, he or you do not want it on this kind or just cannot.
Reality is ne bitxh and it is hardest.
Try to live for you again instead of for who else.
That’s just wishful thinking, you wish it would be like that, but you won’t come back like that, and you’ve already exclaimed it several times in real life, you’re just doing yourself with this, because even if you were together again you wouldn’t be so highfly.
so pictures to show her at some point *
yes, I really noticed that I made certain things about her every day, e.g. pictures of dingen where I hope we find one day to each other because she, as we were in a relationship, has said and done so badly that I simply showed how much she loves me and I have never assumed that we could eventually separate ourselves, that is why I’m so hard to accept for that I’m trying to do so