Not normal, right?

I'm 14 years old and in therapy because I have depression. However, my therapist always gets so close to me. I have certain appointments where I have to come – always on Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays – always, really every time I arrive, he lights a candle and takes off his shirt. I asked him what that was about, but he just said it was warm inside. What should I do?

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Suboptimierer
5 months ago

Why don't you just ask him what this candle is supposed to do and ask him openly if he wants to get to you? You'd like to know that because you don't want it.

Even if he had it before, he will realize that it will not have a chance of success.

Littlethought
5 months ago
Reply to  Suboptimierer

In psychotherapy, only 3 treatment hours per week are allowed. The information of the questioner is obviously wrong and probably invented.

Suboptimierer
5 months ago
Reply to  Littlethought

Maybe, but maybe there are others in a similar situation.

The therapist goes to a very hot patch and risks his admission, depending on how far he drives it. You could try to pee the therapist to the car, you look for someone else or you give him the chance to treat him rationally and reputably.

In the rough, these are the three options.

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I can imagine that at that age many young people want to fight this kind of therapy. Then it would be interesting what negatively impacts them with the third or fourth therapist.

But I don't have to lie to the questioner. I have no problem with taking it as true or finding an answer to the question, it would be true.

Littlethought
5 months ago

Let me guess. You are with a medical practitioner (hopefully) with psychotherapeutic training and not with a psychiatrist.

Littlethought
5 months ago

You're a mathematician and axiomatician. That explains your answer above. It is obvious that abuse with the willingness of the others is not interested.

Suboptimierer
5 months ago

In the directives, I do not think that a question must be true.

Littlethought
5 months ago

It is frustrating to seek meaningful answers and to find out that one has been deceived and that the effort would have been more sensitive elsewhere. The moderation of answers takes place here at quite rigorously. The moderation of questions is practically not.

Suboptimierer
5 months ago

If the questioner had asked, "Imagine there would be the following situation…" no cock would crow after it.

Didn't have it, and you're making sure it was lying. With what goal?

Littlethought
5 months ago

Your blueness is "admirable." Within 20 minutes, the questioner has presented two different very extreme conditions.

Suboptimierer
5 months ago

This is the difficulty that the courts have to evaluate somewhat neutrally, although they want to protect alleged victims emotionally.

And if it were a lie, it wouldn't just want to be treated, but also distract attention from itself.

This is a special exceptional situation because the patients are not in the therapist without reason. It's more likely to solve any protective mechanisms. Nevertheless, in some cases it could also be true, so you can't give therapists a free letter.

Littlethought
5 months ago

It is well known that young people sometimes such difficult to raise disproportionate claims. There have already been court judgments that have turned out to be wrong afterwards, but they had already destroyed a CV. The number of four therapy hours per week is definitely wrong.

Hacker81771
5 months ago

Talk to your parents about it or someone comes with you. It's best to talk to him directly on it or change the therapist.

DerPate17717
5 months ago

Change therapists.

Talk to someone you trust (maybe your parents)

If you trust, you could address your therapists directly

You could also think about reporting this to the competent supervisory authority or practice

Neugier2022
5 months ago

Under the assumption that the story is true:

  1. Talk to your parents about it. Tell them that if they do not strengthen your back, you will contact the appropriate chamber.
  2. Put the therapist in his wrongdoing! He has to treat you professionally and conscientiously! If he pulls out because he gets warm, he's supposed to open windows and stay dressed. In addition, if he approaches you physically or disguises before you again, you will show him to the police and the chamber.
  3. Change therapists.
Littlethought
5 months ago
Reply to  Neugier2022

In psychotherapy, only 3 treatment hours per week are allowed. The information is obviously wrong.

Neugier2022
5 months ago
Reply to  Littlethought

I can't imagine that after a long period of training and study, someone really can get into such a spectacle by physically approaching a fourteen-year-old.

Littlethought
5 months ago

The information of the questioner is obviously pure imagination products. I also consider their corresponding information on their body size and weight to be invented.

Moewe4
5 months ago

You're fourteen, have you talked to your parents?

They're supposed to ask the therapist what this is, I'd be your mother standing there on the mat and then he'd have to explain this to me.

GameBrotherL
5 months ago

the psychotherapist is a psychotherapist

yogurt2
5 months ago

please don't go to dda…

Chrisi614
5 months ago

Report this to the bank and don't go any more…

VomBlock
5 months ago

He doesn't.

Otherwise make a video and complain

kiniro
5 months ago

What do you want to do?

It's easy to think of a better troll story.