Doesn't it annoy you that we Asians are being fetishized so much right now?
Hi, I'm 15 and Asian (Kazakhstan). Lately I've noticed that we Asians are becoming very fetishized. Everyone wants to date an Asian, preferably a Korean. Most people only date Koreans because of their nationality, so they can tell everyone they have a Korean boyfriend, even though it's not even about true love anymore. Korea is becoming very fetishized at the moment, and many people believe that life there is like in K-dramas. Many people lie about their nationality, saying they are from Korea even though they are not. They use fake pictures from Pinterest. Many people also "change" their nationality (which is not even possible). Many people think that when you mention the continent of Asia, there are only Korea and Japan in Asia. At school they say to me, "Ching Chang Chong" or "are you from Korea?" It's really annoying now. What do you think of all this?
PS: Here's a video that describes quite well how most people behave when they change their nationality. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJxCjxGB/
Yes Asians are fetished what excites me themselves (Come from Korea) I just understand that as soon as you look asian you are asked directly whether you are Korean i mean why we are also just people
I don’t want to date Asians. Thus, “everyone” is already factually wrong. With a safety-limiting probability, I am not the only one.
I don’t want to date anyone – no matter where who comes from. I live in a happy relationship, even there I will hardly be alone in the world with a certainty-limiting probability. So a lot of people get out of your “everybody”. Maybe you interpret too much, at least you know too little people to close everyone.
From this way I don’t think anything. Such generalizations are simply prejudices, I cannot say good.
I don’t know. Honestly, I don’t care about the bean. Luckily I have no TikTok etc. and then transfer it to reality.
Some say the truth when they come from Korea or so, but that is true, not only Japan, China and Korea are in Asia, but also Arabia, India, Nepal, Bangladesh, Thailand, etc. And if you think that the other one sends him pictures of Pinterest or so, it’s very easy to find out if it says/shows the truth or not, you just have to go on Google, scan and enter image, in the end comes whether it is from Pinterest or not. But it also does not mean that if one says: “I come from Korea” that it should not vote, the really come from Korea or at least one parent or relative. Everyone is allowed to write and post as it wants when, where and how they do this is their decision and if we believe it or not, lies with us. And the Asians are really sorry for being so fetished. I hope I could help you
Hey yejin,
I’ve just read your report and I can really get into your situation. Personally related to me, I have not been following Tik Tok for months and stand on South Koreans for almost 3 years. I have to listen to what rumors people spread about Asians in general and even negative rumors about South Koreans. As a South Korea lover, I am very honest with people, of whom such rumors come to meet me. I can’t stand by myself to get untruths across the country. The most funny thing a person told me, that Asia is a country and that China is the continent, made me laugh to death. Since I’ve never heard such an absurd thing about someone, and then I think that South Korean men are women. So to all…………….If you really claim that South Korean men etc. are women, then at least know that Asia is not a country and China is not a continent.🥲😂
A question of education. In the USA, most people know nothing about the rest of the world.
I can understand you well. Here alone, you often read questions where someone asks how to get to know Asians. Always sounds like some thoughts are already pre-programmed! 🙄 Even such formulations then…
Well. I also like Asian women often from appearance. But that’s why I don’t want to talk to every Asian looking woman! 😅
And friendships arise according to circumstances. The appearance and origin play only a minor role.
Yes I agree with you I also come from Asia (Syria) and I find Korean Japanese etc. Well, I really wouldn’t date them if I didn’t know them in real and they were sympathetic. So I wouldn’t just be Korean. Data but also Araber etc. from therefore (:
Thank you at least someone who agrees to me also sees it as well as you
Don’t be angry with such people who simply write when the inconvenient causes 💜😉
Yes, that is true
At Arabs you buy your Muslim future with the man. I’m sorry.
Ger
Thanks <33
Jaa’s annoying to get something like that, but I wouldn’t say that “everyone” is fetishing Asians nowadays. I’m sorry for the Asians when I get something like this, because it’s probably even more annoying for them.
Thank you at least one that I think is here.
Nzd!
It’s annoying?!🤡
Yes!
I think it’s funny if I’d love all Asians at a flat rate 🤡I don’t even know them! Besides, I don’t love anyone just because of his origin or nationality, why.
Only Bts and G-Idle🤡 okeee and possibly Stray Kids xD
You love Asian I thought🤡
I understand nix 🤡
Asian, I, you love I thought Asians?!🤡
I’m Asian, but I didn’t get it. Maybe it’s because I don’t really have social media, but that’s annoying at school. Not only with “shing shang shong” but also with “Do you want my friend data?” (because he is also Asian lmao). What part of Kazakhstan are you coming from? Know people born in Kazakhstan but look like Russians.
Is a typical TikTok trend, so something is annoying but will probably not last too long.
I know what you mean, but it’s not all fortunately. Tik tok has a tick anyway
I’m honestly sorry Asians, I completely agree @PurpleOcean 🙂
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happens only on tiktok, in reallife many have just a preference to asiate
Yeah, that’s annoying, but the sooner you learn to take it with humor, even if you don’t find it funny, the better for you.
Everyone certainly not only the u25 Legion
I also notice this as a halp Korean R&Japanese. In school I will always shout, “bahh bameninghong/That is the bameninghong” behind me. Or what annoys me are these sick kpop stans who always ask me, “Are you with “_Kpop Idol_” orphaned??” OR NOCH SCHLIMMER they are talking to me in Korean and then when I get back First of all, they talk to me, “안녕하세ت 💕💕 💕💕”Annyeonghasseyo Eonnie😭😭 OR THE SCHREIEN MIR OPPA HINTER HER DIGGA ICH BIN A WAS FOR OPPA?!??And yes my girlfriend(Vietnamesin) is asked IMMER if she is Korean/chinesin
Or I’m asked if I could have any girl (Kpop stan/Kdrama fan)
That’s really crazy, because I don’t trust anyone to say that. They just usually say Ching Chang Chong or I think I’m fucking
That’s really nonsense
Well, not me.
that you imagine. your tiktok consumption should you limit, as it is only müll posted
I’m barely on Tiktok anyway, I get it myself with my friends and generally at school.
you’re not getting along. Your message is stupid
What’s your problem? She even says that you happen at school and that it is your own experience and not just tiktok and you continue writing such ugly things? You’re more like a kid here. It’s not just nonsense what she writes.
She asked something and you don’t get any further
No
of course. that comes from when children are too long unattended in the internet. like fs just
No
Of course, the whole question is weak.
No
because it’s stupid.
Take less of your tiktok and run with open eyes through the real world. Your whole question is stupid.
Stupid? Why is that stupid?
It seems that you are as much as I have described in my post. No wonder you’re so far away from reality.
I am annoyed by the locked bank card and my broken arm.
good improvement
Thousand
No, your silly ass.