Neighbor is annoying and he is physically ill?
Hi guys, I have a problem and have had it for a long time.
My neighbor, 76, has been single for years and lives next door. Last year he confessed to me that he fancies me, blah blah. I'm 30.
My brother heard about it and politely told him to stop. He apologized to me too. I was just smoking on the balcony again and he started talking and I didn't want to be rude, so I listened for a bit and told him I was going inside. Then he said yes, in Germany the statistics for child rape are high and so on. Then he said yes, where do we live, and I answered yes, in Germany. Then he said yes, it's your fault, ha ha ha.
Then I just said, "It's clear it's not your fault." Then he told me, "You have to spank your ass." My brother just heard this and now he says he wants to go and hit him.
Do you have any ideas what I can do? I can't even chill out on the balcony or smoke anymore. Every time I hear his balcony door open, I quickly go inside. What rights do I have? Who can I get help from? He talks so pervertedly sometimes. Do you want an ice cream, etc.? He's a total pedo.
thanks in advance 🙏🏼
Your brother shouldn’t be a victim. I understand, but it’s stupid.
shows him about sexual harassment. When he gets through because he’s mentally ill, he’ll show him once he gets through.
Old Germans often don’t understand when talking to them alone. Just formally proceed with right and order. Polzei, lawyer, court. Then the faithfulness comes out and they give rest
Thank you for your quick answer.
yes the guy is not normal. He told that his brother gave himself the bullet years ago, so I think (empathy) yes he is sick let him talk but it is slow
Sure. It’s not necessary. And that doesn’t help romance, has gained enough experience.
And tell your brother that he is not worth making his hands dirty
You may be able to report this to the municipality
They should check if he might need official care because he is senile or something.
If your neighbour exceeds the socially adequate level, you have the right to demand a dismissal of harassment (submission claim). In criminal acts, such as threats or sexual harassment, you can also turn on the police. Let a lawyer advise you first to discuss your situation and make sure that all actions are in line with the law. And please tell your brother that he shouldn’t hurt the neighbor.
MfG, Wilhelm Albrecht