Sleep well at night despite having sex in the next room?
My mom has a new lover again, and of course they had sex at our house in the middle of the night, and I HATE it! The walls are so thin that you can hear absolutely everything. I can't close my bedroom door, especially in the summer, otherwise it becomes like an oven in here… I've also tried using headphones and quiet music from YouTube, but that doesn't work either.
So what can I do to ensure I can sleep well at those times?
Trying to knock against the wall and call that there are people who need to go to school/training/work/whatever tomorrow? They may not be aware of how good they are to hear.
Something similar has been done with an earlier lover, apparently without great success… She also knows exactly how thin the walls are! It doesn’t matter if you’re drunk like a wine barrel.
Hmm, that’s difficult when you live at home. Is it sound, so moan, etc., or a hammer/cock/vibration on the wall?
The former can also be caught with heavy fabric or insulation material, second would only be possible with insulation material on the side of your mother. But talk to her, don’t cost so much, you have to put on, but then hopefully you can live together happy again and you can sleep quietly
It’s just everything: cheeks, pampers, snoring from bed, frequent cloning, etc…
The snoring in the bed is likely to solve with new bed, but I don’t think I just bought that once. Otherwise check screws when the wooden connection knarzt, I don’t know what to do. For everything else, a heavy fabric curtain on the door could help. But if your mother builds up insulation, everything that doesn’t have an airway to you (if both open doors have you need a cloth or the like anyway).
Make the music loud. Then it’ll be quieter next door.
Then sleep with me will be nix… :/
But the others realize that it is more worthwhile to be quiet. For if they ask you to be quieter, you can also expect them.
Mhh, you’ll have to tolerate it. Your mother is also entitled to sexuality.
And yes, that with the headphones and music is already a good solution. That’s right.
It’s so stupid with the headphones, because I can’t put my ears on the side. And Youtube also likes to keep the music playback, which is also very annoying, especially if you want to sleep! In addition, the two could go to him, we probably wouldn’t have the problem!
Either you pull out or you’re a little bit in tolerance.
Tolerance?! I mean, I can somehow understand that you want to have sex, but they know how thin the walls are and that I’m there. I’m going home to the guy, right? I personally would even hold back if I had my girlfriend there!
Hm. But you could show your mother – without restraint – how brightly listening the walls are… and possibly add some phon starch. 😉
Whether you’re doing this or holding you back is your thing. If you hear music, your mother must bear it. You can’t ask your mother to have sex outside her apartment because you feel disturbed.
Why don’t you look for your own apartment – old enough you’re long ago and you have work too.
I didn’t mean the last comment seriously as you can think. That would be too embarrassing to me, though.
So I’d just be embarrassed, I’m honest. And for the experiment I have no one, although I would naturally like to take volunteers!
Good idea! Then the couples could overtone each other and make a competition from them 😉
You could get some earplugs.
The investment could be worthwhile. 😉
I should do it. Hopefully, they’re deaf…
Problem might be that you won’t listen to your alarm in the morning.
yes or IA
“My brother must have been a donkey in his storm and urge…”
From donkeys, we can learn a lot – for example, the ability to just stumble when something doesn’t fit them.
Another word for the same result
E-kel-haft!
You’re still young and you’re still…
…Your mother seems to be more immeasurable… it could also make the appeal for her. 😎😇
Ask her.
No wonder when life turns into a hamster wheel. I mean, with me, too, but I’ll make sure that I’m not too loud at any time and if she makes a nap under the day, I always say that she’s supposed to shut the doors, not that I’m too loud.
She obviously developed into a “genus man”.
My brother must have been a donkey in his storm and urge…
… he’s always gone 😉
Well, most of them do Saturdays, so the excuse of sleeping MUST is not gonna count on her… In addition, she is still star-hearted, making it even more difficult to communicate with her…
The alarm clock is the stupidest invention people have ever made.
No animal would get up to the stupid idea if it’s still tired – unless it’s thirsty or hungry.
There’s sleep headphones!
Look on the internet after that, you’d have your rest!