My mother constantly argues with me?
Hey,
I don't have the best relationship with my mother. Firstly, because I'm of a different religion, and secondly, because I'm trans, have depression, and have my own opinions… Since then, my mother has been feeling bad and cries a lot because of me. I don't know what to do. In general, she yells at me a lot, blames me… She constantly makes me feel like I owe her something, like I'm not good enough… Lately, though, she's been crying a lot because of me, and I'm just overwhelmed because I don't know what to do or how to deal with it. She expects me to comfort her, and I try my best, but sometimes she just sits down next to me and starts crying. Sometimes she comes into my room at night and cries or yells at me. I just don't know what to do anymore…
Okay, no wonder you’re emotionally overwhelmed. What your mother does is not okay.
You are religious and have the right to determine your religion yourself. Now I am believer and of course it hurts when the child turns to another religion. But with emotional extortion you don’t convince anyone.
Trans, depressive, own opinion…. may that be related? So be the depression with trans and not feel like you are?
Are you in treatment?
What I advise you: Educational counselling centres are not only available for parents, but also to advise young people. Go there (google what offer there is in your city) and let yourself be advised.
Maybe they can communicate between your parents and you.
Your mother seems overwhelmed. You two have to speak thoroughly.