My ex always got a hard-on because of me, but my new one doesn't?
Hello!
I have a somewhat strange and direct question. My ex got a hard-on because of me EVERY time. Sometimes it was just when he saw me, and I was wearing something tight, for example. I've been dating a guy for three weeks now (we've known each other for five years), and we've already made out twice in his car, and I didn't see him get a hard-on, or rather, I'm pretty sure he didn't get one.
I mean, without wanting to sound arrogant, I look good and have a good, toned body, and I was wearing a skirt both times we made out. I don't know why that is, and asking him directly would be a bit awkward. He thinks I'm pretty and hot anyway—he's said it often enough. Is it normal? What do you think? The whole thing is really starting to annoy me…
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Why do you ask? You’re afraid he doesn’t really love you. Or that he’s impotent?
It’s just different for men. Some people get an errection when they see a beautiful woman. Others need body contact, naked skin. Maybe he’s insecure, excited.
I don’t know what my ex-husband was like that which only reacted to certain circumstances. I’ve used this thing if I wanted to hold it myself. Worked then always very reliable. Otherwise in normal everyday life I also had the feeling of not standing on my body only that it was not. At the beginning I had my doubt at the time if you ever had fun together but a rainy day had it regulated and you already found the trigger. Therefore, a beautiful body is not enough for all it was with it the trigger was wet hare ubd shirt wet and you were quick in the process how to make children.
Is your new guy older than your ex?
So just seeing me, even if I have a skirt or a tight top, my friend doesn’t get high. That might be normal in a teenager’s age, but it’s rarely enough for a laugh.
Apart from the age and experience, this is also very different from man to man, how quickly a man gets an erection. Maybe your new one has to be stimulated directly to its genitals to get an erection.
I wouldn’t relate this to me and see what it looks like when you get intimate with each other and you touch him there. I’m sure he’ll get a high.
Is that your only ad if the man finds you attractive or why are you doing a head over it?
Maybe blood shoots into the swelling body, maybe not… with your ex more at the smallest excitement, maybe not with him, maybe he can cover it well. Maybe you don’t see it either.
Who knows… and is it really important? It would be more important if it was really needed.
You wrote you didn’t see it or not get it.
You don’t know.
And what if he doesn’t like you for your body, but for you? Would that be so bad?
If my friend dresses such certain, skinny stuff, I’m gonna get a lot of fun. Nothing has to happen, I can only enjoy this magnificent sight.
But the sport can be right. I’ve heard more than once that men who do excessively much sports are sexually often lustless.
Oje:(
I already had that. As for your guess with the sport, it could be quite. Perhaps also any dietary supplements have an effect on it?!
What was the problem with you then or what causes?
The problem was that he always got one.
But the question is if you can’t possibly overlook it?
To be honest, it’s better for me that he doesn’t get one than he gets one every time. I also find strange and then feel reduced to my body. But a few times he should get one, otherwise I feel I don’t get him.
On one hand it goes fast, on the other it takes a long time to get a latte. Is very different!
Yeah, but we’ve been around in the car for over an hour and he didn’t get as if it took so long…
If your ex got a stand every time he saw you, I don’t think you’re getting any of this! I mean, your ex must have been extremely irritable – at least much more than your current one! A guy can be horny even without getting a stand on command or every time!
Don’t put that big value on it or don’t interpret that much!
This can be self-control
How far
So your ex may have a fetish on tight clothes or immediately thinks of sex when he sees you. People are very different and often you can get into them badly
Why is it annoying you?
he was getting down a bit before
Well, because it’s good if your friend, etc. gets a stand for you, right?
I’ve always done this with my ex, but I’ve already been annoying in the public
I don’t think it’s normal if someone gets a stand from non-igketeites right away. It’s not like mature, adult men!
even for puperating 13 years, this is no longer normal
Could really be on the many sports.
He’s done sometime.
But since he only trains on six days, he has
Maybe the seventh time for you.
Maybe he has a little cumin