Muttersöhnchen im Islam?
Selam,
Darf die Mutter eines Mannes im Islam sich in der Ehe des Sohnes einmischen bzw. sogar entscheiden wen der Sohn überhaupt heiraten darf?
Er meinte, würde eine Perfekte Frau/die Liebe seines Lebens da sein und seine Mutter sagt nein dann würde er sie direkt vergessen weil seine Mutter alles in seinem Leben Entscheidet.
& wie sieht das islamisch umgekehrt aus? Darf ein Vater für die Tochter nein sagen? Weil der Mann muss ja beim Vater Hand anhalten?
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A man is not automatically a mother’s son, just because his mother is controlling and determining. Some men have been oppressed, manipulated and controlled since childhood or youth. Such men are unfortunately victims but not mother sons. Mother’s sons are pampered, put on a pedestal and praised. These are two completely different things.
To your question, no. She must not interfere everywhere and always. You can their opinion, but that does not have to be taken into account for a long time. You can But you don’t have to follow this. She has collected her own experiences but also you and everyone else. You should always keep that in mind. She doesn’t know everything better. If she is convinced of this, she is not particularly smart. You shouldn’t listen to these.
She’s not rational, but emotional. She speaks of fear and uncertainty, not her mind. When she learned from a potential partner, what was her first reaction? She has himself rather than the happiness of her son. What’s going on with you ? You is then replaced and forgotten. This is pure egoism. Instead of thinking about her own husband and getting old with him, she prefers to keep her son firm in order not to have to share him. Poor son.
Right, a father can give his blessing or not, but he must be good and above all reasonable have. For example, if the potential son-in-law is unemployed, the father can reject him. But if the father does not want to share his daughter because he does not want to end alone, it is no reason to reject the son-in-law. It always depends on the context.
Wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullah
If he’s a mother’s son, he shouldn’t marry. If his mother tells him what to do and leave, and he still sucks milk, he shouldn’t marry before he grows up. Marriage is a responsibility, one takes a woman into this relationship, one takes care of her, one becomes her rock
She’s leaving on her husband to God.
If he does not manage this, he makes himself sinful
Then you can only congratulate any woman who does not marry him.
He is also quite old
About or under 18.
If that’s the case, he’s missing personal maturity.
Over 25
No
The mother has no right since the son is full-year, best you go in çami xum imam