Mutter schreibt mir ständig per WhatsApp etc.?
Hallo ihr lieben,
ich wuchs im Kinderheim auf und habe daher nur eingeschränkten Kontakt zu meiner Mutter und empfinde jetzt auch nichts wirklich für sie.
Seit ein paar Jahren hat sie meine Handynummer herausgefunden,
vorab meine „Mutter“ ist stark Drogen/Alkohol abhängig.
Sie schreibt mir einfach jede 5 Minuten „Huhu , Na , alles fit etc.
wenn Ich dann mit hallo auf ihr Huhu antworte kommt wieder ein na Huhu – ich werd wahnsinnig.
Oder jeden Morgen guten Morgen etc.
Dann immer dieses – huhu bald gibt es Geld ( Ende des Monats kommt so eine Nachricht von ihr ) bin ich froh nichts mehr zu fressen zu Hause.
Ich antworte darauf nicht weil es mir egal ist.
Einmal habe ich ihr 20€ überwiesen als sie mir am 7 des Monats sagte sie habe nichts im Kühlschrank – hatte Mitleid.
seitdem fragt sie mich jeden Monat und gibt Kommentare wie der Monat ist noch so lange von sich in der Hoffnung ich zahle ihr jetzt Geld.
was soll ich tun? Am liebsten würd ich sie blockieren.
Hab halt kein Bock ihr ständig hallo etc zu schreiben und ihre Drogen zu finanzieren.
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Think about how your contact should look in the future.
At the moment it looks like she always needs money and you regularly give money to a “foreign” woman.
Completely independent of their other ambitions (family reunification).
Can you do if you want and live with the daily messages then. Maybe you need a kidney or something (or it). oO
Or you end this chapter in your life.
Thank you. No, there’s no way to live me. I am annoyed by this stupid sensual shading 😂
If your mother, sorry, would at least ask you how you are and show interest in you, I could still understand the many messages, but beg and make a bad conscience that the money is all again, is not at all!
Don’t be necessary. You don’t need to answer any message. Do not block them, just let the contact rest and ignore their intrusion. Just sign up if you want it and think it’s necessary.
Even though this may sound quite malicious for you (other users):
I’d block your mother if you don’t mind. Probably she just needs the money for drugs, etc., as you write yourself, and you shouldn’t support that.
Zero evil! I see that too.
Then do it!
I can only support you. Block.
Then do it. You don’t have to feel obliged to like or support them.
Did she ever try to explain something to justify something to apologise? Is she sorry how everything went? Repentance shown?
If not, let them flash. It’s hard, but it’s better for you.
The joke about it – I was 8 when I was pulled out of the family! we are with bicycles of neighbors!!! They drove to the youth office and told them what happened.
We were beaten and left alone for days! Had nothing to eat.
So I remember ALL! She always says she loved us so much and the youth office took us away. I don’t laugh! And that she didn’t hit us and always was great.
Just ridiculous. Could tell so much more.
Decide what feels right for DICH. Is she treating herself or being in therapy? Tell her you don’t exclude contact again if she’s clean or at least on a good way. But by then…Goodbye
is just a thing where it is just 100% about your well-being. you have to see yourself as the first priority. if she doesn’t get it out of drug addiction or alcohol looking out and don’t want to help, then you should break the contact and block it. even if she wore you 9 months in the breath, she is not your mother
Then do it.
Just don’t answer anymore.
Just block them or just write to her that you don’t give her any more money or lie to her and tell her you don’t have so much money right now
Then- ….lock them… Or keep reading “Hello News” and keep up.
Right, just block them.