Mother freaks out unnecessarily?
My mother was at work all day today and I had the job of walking our two dogs. I saw with my own eyes that both of my dogs had peed and now one of them peed in the kitchen and then it ran into the floor. There's no way to get it out now. When my mother came home this evening she completely freaked out and blamed me and said that I can't take responsibility. Now I'm not allowed to play any video games for two weeks.
My question is whether you think this is justified or whether my mother is just exaggerating
ps I'm 12 years old and sorry about the bad spelling
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How many times did you go with them? You have to go out with the dogs several times a day because they have to do their business more than once. Why didn’t you get that one or both of you out? They’ll get restless and alert to themselves they have to get out.
She’s really pissed, because you had to get out the job with the dogs and you just have to do it several times. And that you didn’t get the dogs back out, and that’s why she’s punishing you, ’cause you’d rather do something else and you didn’t notice the signs.
With 12 years you can already have responsibility in this respect and take care of the animals. If you can’t get out with both of them, you can go with one and then with the other Gassi.
Everyone’s stressed. I can only explain that your mother is just stressed – and now needs a scapegoat. Before she gives herself the blame – and the responsibility – for the animals, she takes you. It’s easier. – I’ll just give her that.
Speak calmly and objectively with her and say that you are not aware of any guilt because you have fulfilled the task. Ask her if she had acted differently. The dogs have spided. How much more would you have done? (I know zero with dogs).
Who actually wanted the dogs – you or them?
But I am just as an animal
Then the responsibility lies with her – and not with you.
Why is she guilty? She has to work and the FS is at home, so you can hand over the task with the animals but more than once. He’s at an age when you can help and you have to know that you have to get out more than once, but first of all, you get it when the parents go out with the animals several times. But probably he was so distracted from something he didn’t come out with one of the dogs again.
That’s a mere guess on your part. We weren’t there and don’t know the family.
Read my comment I had already written:
The focus for the responsibility of an animal must be on a person. Otherwise the animal suffers! There can’t just say that everyone involved can say “I don’t want to do today – do you; You’re equal.” I clearly see adults in duty. Surely the child should learn responsibility. The emphasis is on learning – not on having or can.
The focus for the responsibility of an animal must be on a person. Otherwise the animal suffers! There can’t just say that everyone involved can say “I don’t want to do today – do you; You’re equal.” I clearly see adults in duty. Surely the child should learn responsibility. The emphasis is on learning – not on having or can.
Why? They live together and you can also share the responsibilities. It doesn’t say anything if you’re home to go out with the animals when they have to, and that’s not enough for everyone to go out, no matter what weather is.
If you’ve been wise with dogs, you can’t do anything. But look at Mama’s perspective, maybe she had a very bad working day. And she exploded with you
Then there was little gassi..
if your mother works all day, she’s annoying.
You were just a ghost all day? That’s too little.