Mutter isst selbst total wenig?
Ich weiß, dass ich ein Problem mit dem Essen habe und dass ich zunehmen muss (1,74m und 44 kg). Nur mich macht einfach meine Mutter extrem fertig. Sie sagt zu mir ich soll in ärztliche Behandlung und zunehmen. Sie selber isst aber extrem wenig wiegt bei 1,67 grade mal 52 kg und würde wenn ich mittags nicht warm kochen würde nichts essen.
Dadurch ist sie auch immer extrem müde und schwach. Wenn ich sage sie soll doch mehr essen und auch zunehmen dann stellt sie mich als die gestörte hin. Und dass ich mein Problem in Angriff nehmen soll
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It seems to me somehow clear how you came to “three” eating disorder. What your mother does is, of course, neither good for you nor for them.
You (!) are only responsible for yourself. Take care of yourself. What your mother does is none of your business. It would be good if you stopped talking to her about food, etc. I think you should pull a line and take care of yourself – so you can get out of this pattern.
If you think your mother is at risk, you should go to your doctor and discuss it with him. You shouldn’t do anything else.
All the best – first of all – for you.
The mother is not at risk from weight
I think you should look at YOU and try to accept possibly also with the help of a doctor. So I find your mother’s advice right.
What your mother does is her problem, not yours.
Yeah, it’s her problem. I know that, but still it makes me totally ready when I eat and then she says I have an eating disorder and she (!) eats nothing.
And that’s all I need to know, because it’s simple and easy to do with it.
Everything else is just what you’ve brought in the last 20 questions, but doesn’t change your life-threatening underweight.
Whether your mother would eat something (or what she would eat) if you wouldn’t cook warm at lunchtime, you don’t know and if so, that’s her thing. But what she is right is that you have massive underweight and you have already tried the weight of your mother and sister since MONTHS, which, however, in all matters, have no health problems as an excuse to do nothing about your problems.
But maybe the health problems with her are still coming. She’s underweight, too.
SIE does not have such a serious underweight as DU.
For me it sounds like you’re working against each other.
Why don’t you sit down quietly, discuss the situation and try to change something together?
There’s no need for conversation. She means she has no problem and she is old enough
That’s a shame. You have to take that.
Try to delimit you from her. You want to increase for yourself, not for them.
Maybe you’ll try to talk to her in a different context. Tell her you want to increase and need her support. That you want to try without a clinic, but not alone.
Why don’t you make a suggestion to go to a doctor together? Since you probably eat together, it is reasonable to change the eating habits together. Maybe you don’t even have to tell her that you think she’s part of the problem. The doctor will find out quickly.
Hello! Your mother is just underweight, you are about 20 kg – a huge difference. You are seriously in danger – Your mother is not
You should first take care of yourself, much success
If your mother doesn’t want to change anything, you change your life.