Motorcycle accident encouragement message?
Hello,
My boyfriend had a motorcycle accident and is now in the hospital. The motorcycle didn't belong to him, however; it belonged to another friend. Both of them are completely distraught because the motorcycle is broken and one of their friends is in the hospital.
Both of them are currently under a lot of stress with each other and I'm afraid that the friendship will suffer because it's a huge loss and will cost a lot of money.
I wanted to write both of them an encouraging message on WhatsApp.
How can I formulate this for:
my friend who is in the hospital ukd for my friend who owns the bike and it is totally broken
Please only useful messages 🙂
Greetings
so to a friend who is in the KH as much as wishing health, everything will be regulated and rests more likely to explain it after mistakes happen, am there for you
and to the others, that it is understandably mega stupid when his bike is broken, but that the other friend of course has missed it and will definitely come up for the cost and you will agree to attack now, in general, if one is in the KH you are both irritated, etc.
There are two beautiful sayings
1: Money and motorcycles are not given
2: With money, friendship stops
First of all, you should all be happy that your friend is still alive. The moped is replaceable, not your friend’s life.
Next, you should ask your friend what he thought before the trip (hopefully) how he wants to replace the part in the case of damage.
If he has no answer, the discreet indication that this should be resolved in the future before the start of the ride would not be excessive. You can also give this hint to both, because to borrow someone’s motorcycle that can’t replace it is as stupid as to borrow a motorcycle that I can’t replace.
At the same time, you should ask the owner of the scrap pile what the car was worth. After that, you could offer your hospital occupant to arrange the correspondence with his specialist at his bank so that he can receive a loan as soon as possible to pay the card. You also inform the injured. That gives him at least the feeling that someone cares about regulating the damage and that the thing is not kept dead. Basically, talking about this is important. Just don’t do anything and move to stare to the ground – that’s all worse.
Good luck. 🍀
Your intention is quite understandable!
But maybe you should just limit yourself to your friend first?!
The most important thing is that the accident didn’t get worse!
Material damage can be replaced – life unfortunately not.
That’s what your friend’s buddy will see. I’m sure.
However, his moped scrap is and he probably won’t be able to buy another one immediately – right?
Whether in this situation cheerful sayings over the loss, I dare to doubt.
Please imagine the following situation:
You love your friend about everything. You wanted to get together, get married and have kids. Everything could not run better.
Out of the blue, your friend tells you he fell in love with another girl. He’s sorry, but the relationship is history.
You’re done, sad and you don’t know what to do.
A friend thinks it’s good and wants to cheer you up with a WhatsApp message.
“Don’t worry about it – other mothers also have beautiful sons”
I don’t think that would change your situation. Maybe you feel even worse than before.
It might be more helpful if you were to consider how the damage could be replaced with your friend.
Do you know how the accident occurred? If your friend isn’t guilty, the accident victim’s insurance would regulate the damage.
NCI
He is not my friend in the sense of being together
he is a good friend
that with the deposit will regulate the incident. I don’t want to interfere or something.
they have only argued because something is out of control in this conversation