Mother versus first girlfriend?
Hello. I (M18) am currently in a lot of contact with a classmate of mine. We get on really well and sooner or later it will probably all lead to a break-up. However, I've found out that my mother is a bit worried. She doesn't have anything against the girl but thinks that I won't be able to concentrate on school anymore or something like that. (My stepfather is completely on my side and doesn't see any problem at all). My question is, what could I possibly do to resolve this or at least counteract it? (My mother is difficult to talk to and can be very stubborn and unreasonable). I hope someone can help me. Thank you very much!
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Tell your mom you love her anyway and she's the best mom. 😄
Believe me, mothers also have problems to let go of their kids and a friend can become a consequence.
Ultimately, a mother is always concerned about the welfare of the child.
Thank you. My mother certainly wants the best for me, however, she puts my school feeling about everything. That's the only problem.
School performance can also tilt without a girlfriend, it should not be forgotten!
@Bommelchen00 A mother is NOT always concerned about the welfare of the child, the mother of my children is still not. Unfortunately.
Then watch your kids.
What do I think I'll do
It's not your mother who you want to relate to. When she wanted to start a relationship with your stepfather, she didn't ask you what you think of him. You're 18 now and everyone's full year. That's enough.
Greetings
A proposal is a written contract in which you assure not to neglect the school and what you do if it happens. Your mother's gonna snoop and you're talking. 😉
Hey, I think you can stay with the girl as always, but still focus on the school first, you can also meet occasionally, but only as long as you still have enough time to learn for the school. Maybe you even talk to the girl about what she thinks of it
Yeah, that's what I'm doing. School still has higher priority. Unfortunately my mother thinks differently.
Hey.
You're 18 years old and you can decide for yourself, you're not a 10 year old young, with 18 you've been overdue for having a girlfriend or having fun with some girls, I'm 13 now and have had several girls 😉
I wouldn't do anything. Then the mother has to live. She'll get used to it.