Byelvaxpe
Ich bin neu auf eine Schule gewechselt und am Anfang war alles gut aber jetzt machen sich 2 mädchen immer über mich lustig mit den ich so gut wie NIE was zu tun habe. Ich fühle mich so unwohl weil ich nicht weiß was ich machen soll.
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Loading...Hallo, ich habe da eine Frage: Ich bin nun schon 30 Jahre alt und wohne noch bei meinen Eltern. Ich habe nun einen Job bekommen und dachte nun endlich ausziehen zu können. Nach mehreren Monaten Wohnungssuche habe ich auch eine Wohnung gefunden und man hat mir zugesagt. Nun fressen mich unendliche Gedanken und ich habe…
Mein Vater hat mich früher geschlagen und beleidigt und immer gesagt dass ich dumm bin zu meinem Bruder. Er hat mich immer vor anderen bloß gestellt und klar gemacht wer von seinen Söhnen der bessere ist und ich war immer Schande einfach so ich bin extrem traurig brauch ich Therapie
Hi, nachdem ich gestern voll betrunken nach Hause nahm, entschieden meine Eltern heute, dass sie sich trennen wollen. Nun habe ich Stress vor der Entscheidung, was ich tun und zu wem ich gehen soll. Könnt ihr mir helfen bzw. Tipps geben wie ich das überwinden kann?
Bin sehr schüchterns sage kaum ein wort aber mir gehts nicht gut
Wo kann man sich mit anderen Mobbern austauschen, also jetzt nicht nur über Gefühle oder so sondern auch über die Taten explizit, was man wem angetan hat und die folgen dessen? Würde da gerne mal mit einem Gleichgesinnten mich austauschen, nur konnte Ich noch kein entsprechendes Forum für finden.
Hello elvaxpe,
I want to tell you that you are not alone and that there are people who understand you and are there for you. The bully you are exposed to is not fair and nobody should be treated like that. But please don’t let yourself be discouraged because there are practical ways to stop bullying.
First of all, I would like to stress that bullying is never your fault. You deserve to be respected and friendly, just like everyone else. The most important thing is that you are aware that you have the right to feel safe and comfortable in your school environment.
One of the first steps you can take is to openly address bullying. Find the conversation with a teacher, a trust teacher or an adult you trust. Tell them about your experiences and how much the bullying burdens you. You can help you take appropriate steps to stop bullying.
It can also be helpful to join other students who are also against bullying. Together you can start an anti-mobbing initiative to create awareness and promote a positive school climate. This could be done, for example, by educational campaigns, workshops or information events.
Take your time for self-care and build your self-confidence. By recognizing and pleading your own strengths and talents, you will be more self-confident and less influenced by the opinions of others. Find interests and hobbies that will give you pleasure, and move around with people who support you and positively affect you.
It is important that you do not stay alone with your feelings and experiences. Search for support with family, friends or even professional advisors. You can help you deal with the emotional effects of bullying and find ways to preserve your strength.
Remember that bullying will not last forever. It may be difficult at the moment, but you have the potential to overcome this situation and to emerge stronger. You’re much more than what the mobbers say or do. You are unique and valuable, and you have the right to a happy and respectful school.
I hope that these advice will help you and that you will find ways to stop bullying. Stay strong and believe in yourself. You deserve a life free from bullying and full of love, friendship and support.
If you believe in God, please remember: He understands exactly what people are going through and they are not indifferent to him. A Bible writer explained:
“But I drew my attention to all the acts of oppression committed under the sun. I saw the oppressed cry and no one comforted her. No one comforted them and the oppressors had the power” (Prediger 4:1).
So you see that people used to suffer from harassment and humiliation. But God sees not only those who suffer, but is also ready to help them. Here, for example:
“He will suffer with the disadvantaged and the poor and the lives of the poor he will save. From oppression and violence he will free them and their blood will be precious in his eyes “(Psalm 72:12-14).
This promise also includes those affected by bullying and other injustices.
I wish you to find a way to end the bullying and you can breathe up soon more easily! Good and great strength!
LG Philipp
Teachers speak, because if you don’t tell anyone, nothing will happen.
Or you takes matters into your own hands, and confrontation them directly. Be prepared, however, that this will not always go well.
~ ajkcdajefiu
They do that before teachers and if I say what they won’t stop
And why don’t your teachers say anything?
You talk to a teacher, please.
remain calm when they provoke you, and show them that you are not intimidating (even if this is hard)… look for friends or groups where you feel comfortable, that gives you restraint… mobber often want a reaction, so try not to give them these, and focus on strengthening yourself…very likely they feel threatened and threatened…
You’re both very popular and I have friends I’m full of normal but still do that
yes, they feel threatened as they fear you could become more popular…
don’t ask you… try to make you popular among those if it really blows you, you should talk to them directly and confidently, and say clearly that you don’t want this and that it stops right now… it’s important that something really comes over very sovereign and self-confidence…
I’ll never be popular ka why but the two have no reason not to like me