Talking to girls while I'm going through a rough time?
In short, I've been writing and talking to a girl in and out of school lately, and I really want to, but I'm going through a difficult time right now. I've gotten used to isolating myself and talk relatively little. This makes it uncomfortable for me every time I have to talk to someone. I have extremely low self-confidence, and on top of that, I'm generally relatively unattractive. Furthermore, I constantly have an extremely negative mindset. Although I'm still in school and relatively young, this has absolutely nothing to do with puberty. I feel absolutely terrible every day. The whole thing is so bad that it has nothing to do with puberty anymore, so please don't tell me that.
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So I know I’ve been the same for a long time at school. I am now almost 22 and at the age of 16 I started dealing with topics such as mindset and self-confidence. The point was sports. I started doing sports. This helps to get a good feeling for yourself. In addition, I read many things about health, mental health and self-confidence. In school time, it is hard for me to be self-confident, because you always swim with the electricity and thus always do what all do. I realized that you need to give a f*** to what others think. You need to learn to have your own goals. Listen to your heart what you find. It’s your life and you have to live it as you want. When I remembered it, I had much easier to talk to others. You shouldn’t be artificially just to please others. Do what you want to do and it’ll be better for you. Besides, don’t worry about anything else. And to the thing that you’re unattractive. You don’t want to know what healthy diet, sports, a smile and maybe a little basic knowledge of fashion can do everything. Just search YouTube for videos. Dominik Lebersorger always makes inspiring videos. Go ahead with the girl and meet her. Social interaction is so important for the psyche. Be less on the phone go out more and be not so cramped in conversations with people. Say what you want to say and work on your mental health without a fucking start. I have now been very detailed I hope I could help. Would you like to answer me if you have any questions?