People – Hate or Love?
I often think about what one of the main causes of hatred might be. The other day, the following thought crossed my mind: people have too many opinions, they believe they know things they don't understand. They judge quickly. They rarely question things. I relate it to people, where arguments usually arise between two people, etc. – that would be a cause for me.
Don't you think that people should focus more on facts, commonalities – the good in people?
If so, what would be an idea for us to think in such a way that we might find the other person nice (even if we don't have long contact with that person), simply have good intentions towards them?
I have a suggestion: Don't look for faults in the person you meet. When you speak, just look into their eyes and block out everything else. Listen to their words—and ideally, don't judge. Don't have an opinion on something you might not understand—because you don't have enough information. And if you can, try (just mentally) to simply like this person. Without having to give them anything. Although, what you do give them is a smile. And that's enough, isn't it?
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Personally, I’ve never hated a person. Every person is valuable and unique. And yet it happens that I do not understand myself with some people and there are confrontations. Then you just get out of the way when chemistry is not right. But I haven’t had it yet.
The problem is not always the people who hate someone. Of course, you’re right, many are prejudicial, make their own picture and see only the bad. But if the evil of the other person accepts forms that are no longer compatible with life, then he is hated rightly. Or would you forgive the rapist of your daughter?
You don’t have to understand compulsion with everyone. Respectful handling is a must, but it is not a must to like another person.
And what you write is the right approach. You just have to be careful. If you only have the good of the person in sight, you can be used more easily. Not all people have good in mind, but you can only find out by not judging in advance (as you mentioned).
You can find a person uncomfortable, don’t like, don’t get along with her. But in order to “hassen” someone, in my opinion, a lot has to happen or you have a problem with yourself.
Hm…
Because most people Him (2 Cor.11,14; Rev.17,1-14)
believe more than Jenem (Jes.45,5; Joh.14,6).
I don’t think so. I really don’t hate anyone, so I have people I don’t like, but I can handle it. You can’t be friends with everyone. And you should get to know others. Of course you shouldn’t focus on their mistakes and weaknesses, but you shouldn’t hide them
I like to know who to do it
Black or white?
Is there an objective truth? And if so why should the truth of another person be wrong if you don’t understand it? Is it true or wrong? How do you know what you really know is KNOW? What if your knowledge is based from birth on something other ones wanted you to accept it as knowledge, because they believed in it, for example?
People have several ways to orient their actions. Most people are governed by social norms but only a few judge their actions according to principles.
It is easier to assume:
“XYZ isn’t done!”
As:
“It would be useful not to make XYZ because XYZ”
While one applies a clear direction that is easy to accept even if it is not your advantage, the other variant requires a real understanding of the world. Most do not attain consciousness.
Yeah.
Why? What’s good and what’s bad?
Man is a product of evolution, an animal that survived because it has learned to fear threats, destroy competition and secure resources. Hass is a by-product of this survival instinct – a tool to prevent the “breath”, to exclude the “other” and to strengthen its own group. Anthropologically speaking, we are tribal beings that need loyalty to survive, and hatred forces this loyalty. Evolutionary, mistrust was vital, while trust was a risk. Philosophical? Man is a being that is aware of his own endurance – and he projects this fear of nothing into hatred for others to feel greater, stronger, more important. Hass is not a mistake of nature, but its program. We hate because there is the feeling that we exist – even if we are only isolated at the end.