My sister is going through my things?
Good evening,
My little sister (10) and I (13) have been sharing a room for 3 years.
Yesterday she told me she found a love letter from me. She also said she took a photo of it.
I had written the letter in my diary. The book is in a drawer. She actually knows she's not allowed to touch the drawer.
I don't really care that she knows I like someone. I'm just afraid she'll send the letter to someone else (she already sent a picture of me to her class group), and I feel like I have no privacy anymore.
Can anyone tell me what I can do to stop her from searching through my things?
You’re too much of your little sister!
It is important that you set their limits clearly.
And she must realize that her behaviour is not acceptable.
Take her cell phone away and delete all the pictures she made of your stuff. Then she grabs her shoulders and tell her intrusively that she has no right to crawl around in your stuff and that she does not concern your diary at all. This is unreasonable and if she doesn’t apologize for her excessive behavior, you tell the parents.
In any case, you should add a lockable treasure chest where you can cover everything that is important and valuable to you. The key you best wear with you.
I also have a room with sis 10 years together 😬😬 bin 13
Nervous
Hide your stuff better.
Wait your sister is 10 years old and already has a phone oh man.I should never have a cell phone where I was 10 years old I got my first cell phone where I was 13 or 14 clear.So you don’t need to be afraid why should they send it?. if you send that what’s the problem you’re afraid and you’re embarrassing or you’re scared and this person gives you a basket?
Talk to each other. She’s old enough to understand that you don’t bother the privacy of another person.
Where do you live?
I don’t know what this is about, let alone what it is about you.
The stimulus of the ban should be stronger at age…
Especially if it is not educated by parents.
Right – yet a serious conversation at this point certainly helps.
As I said, it’s none of your business, nor does it have anything to do with my answer where I live.
It has to do with you and your answer, not with the question. I guess you grew up without a sibling.
Some obviously don’t…
If there are no consequences, some keep going.