My mother is freaking out because of 2kg+?
Yesterday she saw a bag of prjaniki (Russian gingerbread) in my school bag, and today I had to weigh myself. I weighed 55 (I'm 17 and 155 cm tall).
I lied to her that I was 53 because she always insults me when I gain weight, and I'm already afraid of weighing myself. Of course, she noticed.
Now she has called me overweight and fat, I should get up immediately, do work (school), exercise, eat better, blah blah and not lie in bed being lazy.
She also said that I'm actually a very pretty girl, but that no one can tell because I'm becoming more and more disorganized.
Now I've decided not to eat anything at school anymore so that she finally understands what happens when she keeps saying that.
I just feel like shit and I have no idea how to eat properly. I either eat everything that comes into view or I eat nothing at all.
What should I do?
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You have a BMI of 23 and do not weigh too much and there is no reason for your mother to be concerned about your health: if you weigh a lot or very little, it could take measures, not at normal weight.
Emancipate from your mother – your mother drives her children into a eating disorder with this behavior. That’s why you keep eating as usual – you don’t have to follow their wishes if they have no meaningful basis.
People who are addicted behave in such a way that they make others addicted. The link https://nacoa.de/projects/consultation offers-round-the-thema-kinder-aus-suchtfamilie you already did. There you can get help, how you can deviate from sick behavior.
What kind of addiction? My mother is not addicted
Behavior would be typical of it and since you asked this question…
You like to drink beer?
It’s not even all the official signs of a search.
Never, ever, ever lie to your mother. That’ll always come out.
Oh, my God. With what parents need to puff around some people.
Your Russki mama doesn’t seem to be all together anymore. It’s quite common with late occupiers. In themselves loving people, but most of them are any religious hard liners, have an extreme plaster lining, are notorious collectors of stuff or otherwise have any strange peculiarities.
The case with you is of course clear. Your mother’s got a shot. That’s what you gotta find out. Don’t let that get to you as good as you can. And if you’re 18, you can get rid of it by extract.
But don’t let your emotional well-being go so well.
I know: easy to say, but hard done. You can’t fight against lumpy parents.
My mother is not Russian
Has he probably not said to you 😉
She’s not rly.
to believe me
With 55 kg you are not ultra slim, but still in healthy normal weight.
Your mother obviously has no idea how such statements come to you (that she doesn’t care, but she probably doesn’t understand).
So you can’t do much except to tell her again and again and ignore her. You’re as good as you are, don’t let her break it.
Ignorate your mother about this, she obviously has mental problems.
With your weight you are normal weight. And the two kilos are there anyway.
You eat as hungry. Not too much and not too little.
But if you’re normal weighty and don’t change much on your diet, you shouldn’t have any trouble.
GENUG Sports and Active Lifestyle e.g. You to normal weighty but upper limit. And your mother just asks you to pay attention to you.
Maybe not lying anymore.
step1 balance let go
step2 your mother say how you feel and say that you find their way of education
put step3 limits and make your mother realize that you don’t have to prescribe eating habits. you are 17 and not 8
Step 1: Is your scale
Step 2: I have, I don’t care
Step 3: Okay
Don’t put yourself on the scale anymore.
She forces me
Then you refuse.
Okay.
Hope you’ll come out soon and tell me what your mother is… I don’t dare to say it.
What?