My mother is destroying me mentally?
What can I do?
I've lived with her for almost 16 years, and I can't stand it anymore, with all the rules, punishments, yelling, anger, blame, pressure, and everything else you can think of. My father has noticed it, too. Today, she took away my electronic devices and grounded me until December 7th. Ever since she came into my room, I've been extremely nauseous. I feel like I'm going to vomit all the time, and my stomach is churning. By the way, my birthday is in mid-November.
Physically it is destroying me and it is having a huge impact on my health.
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Then follow the rules your mother has set up as your guardian in her apartment. She’s gonna know you, and it won’t be the first time you don’t have a deal. You will also be bound by rules beyond your family, which will lead to consequences when there is a rule. So it’s a good practice that you’re getting used to the rules to be followed.
If you live alone, you can at least set up your own rules for your home and even if you want to break them at any time.
Then you have no problems.
Yes, however, my problem there are too many rules and also very unnecessary, sometimes I forget to stick to it and then I’ll yell directly. I don’t even have to violate rules, I’m done without reason
You need to observe your life rules that you can’t always understand and would rather ignore. Learn to arrange yourself with it.
That your mother yells at you is not good. Talk to third (with your father) in peace. She’ll be annoyed by your dickhead and probably overwhelmed.
Then you’ll write a letter in which you’ll tell her how you feel and she’ll yell at you so often. With love… you put her on the pillow… And she’ll read him alone and think about it.
Thank you, but I have often tried to talk to her. It has not helped bite, whether with my father or without him, it doesn’t bring anything, it cries up to it doesn’t matter
Your mother will have her reasons.
I guess she’s very worried about you. At least I would be in her place after I saw your profile.
It doesn’t feel that way, and she has no reason to be worried because she knows absolutely nothing about my life, really nothing at all
Turn to a trusted person, that’s not OK, don’t let it please!
LG Antonia w/12
He lives at home, is not full-year and has to adhere to rules. This is the only way to get rid of it. But he won’t get rid of rules.
That’s life.
I am a girl
Yes, of course, and in some things I understand the consequences completely, but you can do it without being overrun and screaming without all the time. Streng is good in measure but not in excess. Compared to other parents, you could almost think it’s sick
That’s silly. I need to learn that there are rules.
I used to be young and there were rules. Today I am glad that my parents have raised me well and were quite strict from time to time.
You will eventually realize that rules are imposed on you throughout your life that it is necessary to observe.
I know that now. ECT