Meine Eltern sind strikt gegen meinen Wunschstudiengang?
Ich habe dieses Jahr Abitur gemacht/mache Abitur und es sieht eigentlich super gut aus für mich.
Seit drei Jahren überlege ich schon, Chemie und Biologie auf Lehramt zu studieren.
Ich habs zwar abgewählt vor drei Jahren weil ich in Chemie (und auch Bio) nicht sonderlich gut war, aber ich hab mir soo viele Lehrbücher reingezogen und mich interessiert das auch total. Auch glaub ich dass mir der Lehrberuf liegen könnte.
Meine Eltern (insbesondere meine Mutter) ist da strikt dagegen. Weil Chemie ja immer nicht soo gut war, als ich das noch in der Schule hatte. Immer wenn ich das Thema in den letzen Jahren angeschnitten hab, kam es zum Streit.
Verunsichern tut es mich eigentlich nicht weil ich da mega Lust drauf habe und weiß, dass mir das Spaß macht. Allerdings hab ich noch keinen Job (will aber unbedingt nach dem Abi jobben), aber trotzdem könnte ich noch auf meine Eltern angewiesen sein. Ist auch für die kein Problem, außer ich studier Chemie. Das gehr gar nicht.
Andererseits denke ich mir, ich bin volljährig und kann studieren was ich will.
Was denkt ihr? In Ruhe an einen Tisch sitzen bringt sich rein gar nichts bei der.
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You’re not a single case, many parents have made this mistake. They want their child to be educated according to their ideas, although the child has quite different gifts and talents from birth than the parents could imagine. The product of such education is unhappy people. There are many of them.
You should definitely talk to your parents in peace and kindness and make them clear how unhappy you would be if you would study something that doesn’t match your gifts and talents. There are numerous examples that people have gone a completely different way than their parents wanted. They have even become famous. Martin Luther should become a lawyer, but, against the will of his father, became a reformer for the Protestant Christians.
Follow your gifts and talents and don’t let them take you away.
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It’s not your parents’ decision, what way you’re going to go.
You decide what you do and whether they are happy or not, they are responsible for your living until you have a vocational training.
So, you’re studying what you want and your parents are supporting you as if you’re studying what they’re doing. Point.
You’re the product of her education, tell them once. If you are not their desired product, they have done something wrong – not you. Apparently they want a remotely directed doll, which can’t work forever, because they typically die from you and who would direct you?
So it is only logical that you should walk through life on your own feet and ultimately find your own way. Every person has the right to shape his life as he considers it right. They will probably have done that as they did not grow up around 1900 and no strict reins were the rule in education.
Ask your parents if they can agree with their consciences to force their child into a study and subsequent profession in which you are not happy.
Your parents have a bang, you have to work in the next 40-45 years, but I don’t care about the opinion of my parents.
Of course, that’s stupid, because you don’t have a rest. However, you need to work with your job for many years, so you should do what you think is right. I start ( hopefully if the school gives me a place. I’ll be waiting for feedback on my application) soon in a training where everyone from my family is opposed. They’re looking at me in the office in the building block or town hall, but that’s not mine.
A month ago, it was still Latin at the school
Now Bio/Chemie OBWOHL you weren’t good in both subjects and you chose them?
I can understand your mother. A couple of chemistry books and 52 what is what books are equal to what you missed in regular classes and what is ultimately required in study does not stand out
I don’t think it’s your parents that they can’t give you a course of study.
It’s about your blue-eyedness and they don’t want you to change your opinion about your study period five times because you’re presenting something “interesting”.
Still, under the line: you are 18 and decide yourself. Whether it suits parents or not
Are you full-year? If yes they have nothing to tell you
I am
Then easy