Mein Vater will, dass ich beschnitten werde?

The statement of your doctor that circumcision from the present perspective is NOT necessary is relatively clear from purely medical perspective. In addition, I would interpret it so that he gave you three ways to deal with the existing basic problem. Waiting is certainly appropriate in such a case. Why also overthrows a part of your body, even the most sensitive, simply cut off if there is no absolute need to do so.

I would recommend using the cortisone cream further at regular intervals, best daily and also for at least 10 minutes for appropriate stretching. Basically, slow masturbate and always hold a moment under painFREIER tension when you pull back the foreskin. The voltage ensures that new cells grow very slowly but constantly, increasing the tissue area. But that we have already explained your urologist in a similar way. The cortisone cream alone makes the tissue just softer, but for long-term success it is necessary that the constriction increases or widens due to increased cell formation. If you can strip your fore skin completely before and back even during erection, it goes without problems, otherwise it would be more recommended to pack the fore skin at its tip and pull it forward.

To your father, I can only say that it may be a presumably more widespread phenomenon among circumcised fathers that a subliminary envy arises. His son has something he was taken. He’s been talking his circumcision for a long time, with lustful reasons, the circumcision penis is partially heroized, but now there are you and you are not circumcised. That’s not going, it can’t be, feelings come up, which he can’t allow. This has patriarchal traits. You’re supposed to be the same as him. He doesn’t have this body part anymore, so you can’t. Perhaps this difference has become aware because your foreskin can be “healed”, perhaps it would have worked with him, but he was simply cut. The penis is emotionally very stressed, that has to do with honor, dignity, self-esteem. Frequently, affected men cannot accept their dissatisfaction about their incompleteness, they dazzle it until this door is so well closed that only positions can be accepted that circumcise the condition, lead to a better, special light.
I’m here to stress once again that I can only do mutations.

My recommendation to you. Follow your abdominal feeling if you’re not sure or you don’t want it, you shouldn’t be cut. Traditions can be broken, positions and decisions accepted. Your father will have to accept your decision if you find the power to clearly express your attitude. Your mother is asking for help. She can help you accept your decision and drop the subject.

From a hygienic point of view, nothing speaks for circumcision. The study situation here is very unclear, unambiguous, partly contrary and often very fixed to a certain (requested) result, so that no clear picture is produced. Supposing circumcision would have great health benefits, which cannot be, as the study situation would have to be much more clear, then it would still be your decision to keep your foreskin on your body. You are born with it, it fulfills some purposes and it belongs to you.

Your Frenulum can also be extended with stretching exercises, if it is only a little too short, if it is very short, very tight, or even was already torn or otherwise injured, a surgical extension of the Frenulum could be quite sensible. Do not remove it, it is the most sensitive part of your body for sexual sensations.

If you have any questions on your subject, just write to me!

Otherwise good luck, patience and success in getting your foreskin 😉

Maybe it works if you make it clear to him that it doesn’t matter what kind of circumcision-positive text he sends you, you tell him that you don’t want to miss your foreskin, even if you need another treatment. There are many healing options, even surgical, without amputating tissue. If you tell him clearly that you want to keep your foreskin because you like it, it is a part of you, whatever you feel for you and that circumcision is not an option for you, you do not want to continue this tradition because it is your body and he likes you, maybe he can drop it. If you feel like you could use backup, maybe you can talk more about it with your mother so you have an ally at home. You can quickly feel very powerless when others impose their very strong will and do not let a no apply. Don’t let yourself be undermined, try to stand up to your attitude and speak open, even if the subject is likely to be very unpleasant to discuss. You could also use this as an argument. It is a very intimate theme, and red lines you draw here are to accept it. Also from their own parents.

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These inflammations are so rare in normal hygiene that circumcision is simply not possible. In exceptional cases it may be helpful, for example in advanced lichen Sclerosus, but not in any field forest and meadow inflammation, let alone as a prophylaxis. That would be completely disproportionate

Inflammations under the pre-skin occur as inflammation can occur everywhere in the body (example white pimples), but most of the men have no difficulties with their pre-skin. Using a small group as an argument for the big whole is simply not correct. Also a cut penis can ignite.