Mein Vater ist rückfällig?
Hallo ich bin 15 und mein Vater war 2003 laut ihm Alkoholiker, er hat zwischendurch einmal im Jahr getrunken
Seit 3 Tagen trinkt er jetzt 2 Flaschen klaren am Tag und ich sehe zu wie es ihm Tag für Tag mehr kaputt macht
Er trinkt laut eigenen Angaben weil er mit meiner Mutter Streit hat , es ihm Gesundheitlich schlecht geht und dazu kommt daß ich andauernd Stress mit der Staatsmacht habe
Er hat COPT und kann wenig laufen bzw gehen und wenn dann bekommt er schlecht Luft
Gestern und heute kommt er kaum die Treppe hoch bzw runter , man versteht ihn nicht aufgrund seiner Alkoholisierung wenn er spricht .
Ich habe das Gefühl das es nun ein schlimmes Ende gibt weil er trinkt immer mehr Tag für Tag
Am liebsten würde ich ihn einweisen lassen in die geschlossene
Ich weiß ich bin erst 15 aber ich will irgendwie helfen
Vielleicht kennt ihr obdachlose Alkoholiker aus einer Doku denen es schlecht geht und genau so ist es gerade
Ich bin verzweifelt und könnte nur noch heulen
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Hi, I’m so sorry to hear. Does your mother mind? He really needs to get help, but it is, of course, difficult to let his own father introduce. You have to think about that, but there are many other options. Or you can get help from someone else and trust someone. Maybe other family meds or teachers? Then you could find a way together.
I hope you and your father will be better and you can help him.
The two have been divorced for 15 years since my birth and live apart
If you’re serious, you can change that point.
Then you see if this is just an excuse or an actual reason.
And what you can do? For example, if he alcoholizes car drives show him. Then he can’t get his stuff without any problems.
And if you still find something about Alk in the house, it’s all over.
Which is why it might have been the last set. Could that be?
Mom says he always pushes other things when one is solved
Car and so he didn’t. The bike does not pack it anymore
Without the person’s insight, your possibilities are limited.
You can also try talking to the dealers that they should not sell anything alcoholic to your father, but that usually doesn’t work.
You can report to the youth office and say you can’t look at it that you should get away from your father.
If you have “lust” on many forms you can try a forced instruction in a closed department of your father. That’s why the wording “not what you would like.”
All in all, you can make it harder to get to the Alk and dispose of it.
Probably letting the youth office take away the most sensual.
@Asporc You should inform yourself about alcohol sickness. What you write is typical of people who have absolutely no idea of this bad disease.
So make the alki as easy as possible? Doesn’t seem plausible to me.
For every bottle you tip off, the alcoholic buys 10 new bottles.
Like what you can do, you won’t like it.
If you prefer to live with the guilt because you didn’t do anything, that’s your decision.
Only I promise you they’ll have you. So either act or guilt.
I live with my mother, but he’s a long road away. He is to become sober I don’t want to do anything in the morning, but in the evening, the rappel is full, so and I don’t want to be a traitor in the aftermath
Tell him if he’s an alcoholic, he’s either supposed to make a withdrawal, or instead drink beer, that’s by far not as harmful as schnapps, or wine, and also makes drunk.
He says he doesn’t drink beer or he’s not drink beer, he wants to drink white
He said yesterday
Too bad the marijuana is not yet legal, that would certainly be a far better alternative for many than alcohol.
He doesn’t want to drink white he wants to be drunk as quickly as possible.
He will!
It hurts to look at me, but who doesn’t want to hear then feel but he shouldn’t scare me
But don’t they laugh at me?
No, so you help your father