Hello
I've noticed that lately my mother and mostly just me have been doing the housework and when you ask my father if we want to make a household plan he immediately feels attacked and says loudly that he does enough around the house and he leaves the room angry but he doesn't do anything except cook that's why I had the idea for this plan but because you can't talk normally I don't know what to do.
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Are you there a child or a roommate? Let’s say you’re not an equal part in the distribution of tasks. Your parents have to make up for it. And the older the child becomes, the more/ more complex tasks can take over this – of course, taking into account other activities (school, job).
If your father works as a single full-time, for example, I would say he does more than enough in the household with cooking.
If it is not so obvious, then I would recommend you – instead of a plan – to make visible who does what, how much time it costs and possibly also how happy it is. Often we underestimate what the other is doing for the Community. This includes managing dates, birthdays, purchases, repairs…
But even if your mother is in your opinion. She has to agree with her husband. As a child, you can still find any accusation so unfair, but it’s not up to you to complain as long as it’s possible for you and doesn’t cost, for example, from school.
If an outsider cannot judge to give an advice here, it needs two opinions.
I write it here, as in demand there are too many signs.
What is regulated in the plan is who goes to work from your two parents and how old are you, what are you doing right now…. School, profession, unemployed?
Well, your proposal with the budget was a silent accusation to him. No wonder your father reacted mad. What does your mother say?
Wouldn’t it be for her to discuss a plan with your father (and you as a listener)?