You shouldn't solve your problems, but rather free yourself from your problems?

I don’t know exactly what you want, but I’ll tell you about some impressions of me.

A couple longs for a child. Unfortunately, the years pass and the two remain childless. When they have given up all hope, it still works and the woman gives birth to a son. Parents are overjoyed and want to meet the size of the experience by giving the child a name that shows their gratitude and size: they call their child formidable.
As the Son grows, he remains rather small and sneaky, which repeatedly brings him hone and mock, due to the difference between his name and his stature.
On the deathbed he speaks to his wife, with whom he lived very happy for many years: “I found my whole life somehow with my name, but had a lot of trouble with it, but on my tombstone should not stand.” Dear wife, write what you want, but not my first name.
The woman promises that the man named Formidable dies and thinks about the woman and comes to the end of writing to the gravestone that there is a man who was faithful to his wife for a lifetime.
People who come by think: Oh, that is very formidable.

Here the supposed solution could be the problem. 😉
If the solution is the problem, I want to say that it can be quite difficult and some try to avoid it, which can lead to further entanglements.
Honestly and courageously, however, one would have to see that the solution is the real problem if this case applies.
It would be better to solve the problem itself (for example by rethinking or other changes to oneself).

There is also a fatal assumption if, for example, someone believes to have the absolute solution for a problem quite certain, the final solution to have the final solution for a problem, because some of these will also like to believe to be allowed to apply/can/have to apply violence in order to enforce their so-called final solution.
The self-approach to violence, of course, brings too much pain and suffering for too many.
Here too, the supposed final solution would be a problem.

However, if one wants to resolve oneself from his problems, there are completely different solutions that are more likely to be found in a self-responsibility and in a rethinking, which means that other problems only arise or no pain and suffering arise.

Problems of rolling usually does not bring anything, we should leave better because it does not lead to any solution.

Questions about guilt and responsibility bring nothing, because they are addressed to the past, where we can no longer change/resolve anything. Also, as soon as the focus is on guilt and responsibility, this is too problem-affected and too little solution-oriented.

Problems often have something to do with our discontent. All the problems we have ourselves should not be solved by others, which is often required in the partnership. In general, we try to change others rather than ourselves, which I find unfavourable because it comes to misunderstandings and disputes so quickly.

Whenever we laugh together, I think a problem dies. 😉
Humor could be helpful and helpful in solving a problem.

Here is another great story:

https://www.seelen-fasten.de/geschichte-das-problem/

If I have a defective PC (or a car….) and believe it is urgent to need it, then I have a problem, but one above all because of my thinking.
If I think, well, it’s time to go, or just because it just happens that technology strikes, then I have a task to get it back to work (even or with the help of others) or to exchange it. A task, however, does not necessarily have to be a problem. Maybe, but I’m not going to say anything. This could also be a problem solution. In renunciation, the most intense is the (self) dissolution from one problem.

But once accepted, there would be no problems at all, would we then have the problem of having no problems?

The biggest problem of man could be ego.

And if, for example, all solutions are worse than the problem itself, one should think about whether the problem is not already the solution. 😉

It is not to solve his problems, but to solve his problems?

What do you think?

That’s right!
And always stay beautifully creative…