Suppose your parent tells you to go to your grandmother and your parent calls the grandmother and she says that the grandchild / …?
… the granddaughter is not allowed to come and just hangs up and your parent (the grandmother's son-in-law or the grandmother's daughter-in-law) says that your parent hates the grandmother and no longer does anything for the grandmother and the services that were provided for the grandmother were at a friendly price, i.e. cheaper, but the grandmother also got something for free from the parent and the grandmother is alone because the grandfather is traveling alone. But the grandmother is diabetic and has high blood pressure. And now the question: would you call your grandmother despite the whole situation or not? Would you find the attitude towards you negative if your grandmother did that to you as a grandchild/granddaughter? Please give reasons.
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I didn’t understand the problem because the text is written strangely.
But if you want to call your grandmother, you can do it. Even if your parents don’t understand her well.
Summary: Grandpa traveling. Parent did everything for the grandmother free and for the friendship price ( cheaper). Grandmother is angry. Grandmother alone. Grandmother sugars with high blood pressure. So call the Grandmother as granddaughter or not? With justification.
Okay, Dan. Here again my answer:
Reason: You can do as you want.
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I’d call her because she wouldn’t be on her own and I’d visit her secretly if she had time.
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It is so that the grandmother refused that the granddaughter / the granddaughter can come to her .
That’s her problem.
I’d ask what’s going on.
And according to your description, I would then delimit myself from the parent if I had a different opinion
And if the grandmother from abroad comes to Germany and you can’t get that foreign language so well?
This is, of course, difficult. Ask someone who can speak, the other parent
Yeah, you’re right. The grandmother can be a bit German, but not much so of 100% maybe 5 – 10% .
I already wrote that you don’t need a language. Of course you can’t call
Whether you could communicate with them, even if you can’t get the foreign language. In addition, both are German .
What’s the question?
And big fathers on the mother’s side and father’s side, do you have them and are both German or foreign and the other German or both foreign?
no longer, but cordiality is always understood. It’s not a completely new contact here
Do you have a foreign grandmother or only German grandmothers on the father’s side and mother’s side?
Thank you, then I got that right. Of course, the grandma should not interfere in the relationship of parents. And the age of the granddaughter should just go. It is better to speak personally, even if you can hardly speak a language
Here simplified when it helps: The parent 1 cannot do exactly this foreign language either. The other parent (parent 2 ) can speak, but is gone and the trust is then also gone to the parent 2 . And the grandmother does nothing to make the two parents ( 1 and 2 ) come together again. The grandmother could then say to the adult child parent 2 that the two should come together again and talk to the adult child (parent 2 ) of the grandmother in conscience.
very complicated
The parent cannot do exactly this foreign language either. The other parent can speak the language, but is gone and the trust is then also gone to the parent. And the grandmother does nothing to get the two parents back together. The grandmother could then say to the adult child that the children should come back together and talk to the adult child of the grandmother in conscience.
Before I hit my grandma with a bag and a pack, I’d call her first and let her tell me her about things.
Generally, children should be kept out of the parent grandparents’ twist.
I speak as a person concerned.
My grandmother and my mother had garkein relation to each other (Mother and daughter).
My grandma used to build big bockmist: she was in turn audible to her mother, who did not like her granddaughter (my mother). Shortly she found that boys would be more value and let my mother clearly feel it. That both shared a room didn’t make it better.
Finally, it was regulated that my grandma only visited us for birthdays (and vice versa my parents visited my grandparents for birthdays only) while we were able to go over children at any time.
There was never a bad word before us about the other party.
As a child/teenia, I was with my grandparents almost every day, and even if I felt the relationship of adults strange, it was somehow “normal”.
It makes me sad and angry when adults carry their twist on the back of children (no matter whether parents grandparents, aunts-oncles or couples in separation).
The parent called yes. But the leaned against the grandmother. So to the thing with the grandmother sleeping as grandchild / granddaughter.
the granddaughter is supposed to be a month to the grandmother?
So, until the grandmother refused.
that is also perfect the right of the grandmother, the elders cannot simply determine that the granddaughter goes to her for 1 month. The grandmother has another life.
it is not about a weekend
one has nothing to do with the other.
Besides, I find these benefits for something to expect really stupid… Even if it’s a family, you don’t have to let everything go or do whatever the other wants.
And if someone does what free for one, only one has the problem that makes it free.
But the parent did everything for the grandmother, for a friendly price ( cheaper) and for free, so free .