Is it worth working for a year between two children?
I'm taking two years of parental leave, after which our daughter will go to daycare. This costs us €450 a month. As a part-time worker, I would earn about €800.
If our little one didn't go to daycare, but started kindergarten at age 3, we would save the €450 a month. Then I could get a part-time job and work when my husband is home with her.
We would also like to have a second child when our daughter is 3-4 years old.
Would be a parent bill….
Otherwise, I personally find Kita with 3 actually quite late – especially because a second child is planned. At some point, the kids are not at home (yet alone), want more and other inputs than they can deliver themselves and also usually interact very much with (approximately) peers. So much other things can be learned when you can teach them – even if you are constantly trying to get in touch with parents.
And from mum sight, it makes a pregnancy (especially in the last third, but who knows how it basically goes…) easier if you have the big child well looked after out of the house for a few hours without having to go through a reconciliation. The same applies for the first time with infant.
Do this with the minijob, because the first 3 years are enormously important for the development of a child!
These are actually two different questions: