Lack of sexual desire and no proper erections at 33, what to do?
Hello dear community
For a little over a year now, I have had the problems mentioned above
It can't really be my lifestyle. I do strength training, I don't smoke, and I don't drink alcohol.
According to the doctor, my testosterone levels appear to be normal. My thyroid, heart, and a general blood test showed no abnormalities.
I don't really have any mental health issues. The stress I experience from time to time is something I had when I was younger, too, but why am I simply not interested in sex?
The doctor prescribed me Tadalafil 5mg but I don't want to take any erectile dysfunction medication
How can I get my libido back? Are these problems normal at my age?
And let me guess, after a blood count and a few questions, the doctor has more or less licked with his shoulders and had no idea?
Let your hormone level and your hormonal fluctuations or check the daily and monthly cycle. Because men also have a hormonal cycle.
Also, the doctor is supposed to clarify ADDITIONAL hormone levels. Testo alone doesn’t say anything, no idea how doctors can still be so stupid… For example, if you have an increased estrogen level at normal testo value, this explains your sexual loss and can also be reason for your potency problems.
@Sascha5810 Thank you for your answer. I had the feeling that he didn’t really listen to me and spoke directly about imagination and psyche.
I’m kind of sure the cause has a connection with my hormones
According to Urolog, only a simple testosterone level was measured with me in the early morning. I am surprised that it is seemingly much more extensive
As a jmd who has been impotent since childhood and has no sexual feeling, I must unfortunately confirm your impression.
The issue of sexual list based on hormones is much more extensive. I can only advise you to look for a smart doctor
I don’t have any confidence in Urologen anymore. They only know 5 treatments if they don’t work, bad luck.
I would rather advise a specialized doctor for hormones
Thank you
Should I contact a Urologist or any other specialist?
I wish you the best
Sexual unlust can have many causes. In a case of doubt, look for another urologist and check it again. But: with 33, life is always “simply” different. This has to do with the fact that between 25 and 30 years of age a brain center is formed for consequent thinking. So really grown up you’re only 30 years old. And then you change. Depending on what sexual experiences you have done before, it can be good that your head says, “Well, I don’t have a bock on this stress.” In that case, it’s really a headache.
I myself suffered from a real testosterone deficiency and if you count on it as a patient, then the doctor usually hears certain keywords that indicate a hormonal disorder. Now I have an artificially normal hormone level, was in the beginning rolling like neighbor’s Lumpi and meanwhile this was completely normalized. I’m good at it, but I have little pleasure on sex, like before. Don’t bother me, I like to live alone.
Do you have a firm partner or just don’t want to fuck around in the area? Somehow sex also has something to do with love and is not just a sporty activity.
Maybe you have unconscious stress or other conflicts that are not aware of you.
LA
Body, spirit and soul belong together. You’re welcome to take a look.
Otherwise, fill up vital substances, also aminos B vitamins and Omega 3.
And look for a smart doctor who knows hormones. I can only recommend. Just like very, very good Nems. There’s a lot of things going on.