Kindern Bissspuren vom Sex erklären?
Guten Abend zusammen.
Mein Mann und ich hatten heute Nacht Geschlechtsverkehr und er beißt manchmal gerne. Ich habe ein paar Bissspuren und blaue Flecken, welche meinem kleinsten gleich ausgefallen sind. Da wollte er mich direkt verarzten. Es war schon sehr süß. Er hat mir überall Pflaster draufgeklebt und dann war das Thema auch gegessen.
Meine große allerdings löchert mich seit Stunden mit Fragen und mein Mann meint immer für mich antworten zu wollen. Es gab einen riesigen Streit und nun wollte sie alleine mit mir sprechen. Sie hat mich dann gefragt, ob mein Mann (ist ihr Stiefvater) mich verletzt und ob ich mich nicht traue etwas zu sagen.
Mein Mann findet sie ist noch zu jung jedoch sehe ich, dass sie sich Sorgen macht, weshalb ich mit ihr nochmals und zusammen mit meinem Mann ein Gespräch suchen möchte. Ich möchte nicht wirklich ins Detail gehen und es einfach nur grob abkratzen, jedoch weiß ich nicht wie ich es sagen soll, da sie schon sehr viel weiß und sehr wissensbegierig ist.
Habt ihr da eine Idee?
Küsschen, Victoria
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I’d tell her you could explain it, but she’d be too young to really understand. But you know that two people who love each other have sex with each other and that can happen. Then make sure you don’t feel hurt. To understand that, but she’s too young.
Well, if that’s really true with that, you know alone. And also what meaning does that make with you.
If your husband thinks you need to talk for yourself, you can only hope you have something to say.
Since she’s 14, you can talk about it openly. Best but with humor.
LG.
Tell your truth?? And after that, I would put clear “rules” between you and your husband to be prepared for something better.
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That’s why it makes sure the kids don’t get it!
Now the cat is out of the bag and you have to explain your big little hair what you’re doing in bed and that you’re both standing on it.
She didn’t get it. She only saw the result.
And so she got some of it!
I know. Otherwise I’ll cover it. I mean, do you think I feel good now? It’s also unpleasant to me and it hurts me. At work I have to cover it in any case, not that customers still appeal to me.
It shouldn’t be.
I have no inclination. My husband said it won’t happen anymore.
Okay, that’s unfavourable, of course, when you discover your inclinations so late.
Then you should explain to the child the same.
He has always had me bite or cracked. It was so strong this time. He thinks it was wrong.
You can call it different if the term interferes with you.
We have no BDMS relationship.
Or a patch on it.
Or give up traces until the children are out of the house.
Whatever.
You have to worry about this before you get kids in a BDSM relationship.
What should I do in the future? It’s overmining?
I would speak openly to her, you don’t have to go in detail 😉
Tell her. So the truth. Otherwise, she’s worried and that’s a lot more harmful.
A question, do you even want him to bite you?
This depends on the age of the child.. a 5 year old can’t even arrange it
A 5-year-old would also not ask under four eyes whether the mother is being abused.
Often I don’t want it. However, if I’m just before the climax, I usually don’t notice it and have only pain after the sex. But it’s not that bad.
“Everything isn’t so bad” that’s almost body injury!
It’s not GAR if you don’t want it. Such special practices are precisely to be discussed and agreed upon. You don’t just do that.