Children complain that mother never has time, what do you say about that?
The mother constantly goes to her grandmother, or great-grandmother from the children's point of view, on weekends, holidays and public holidays.
The great-grandmother is already 87 years old, can no longer walk far, needs a lot of support and also has cancer.
Since their mother works full-time, the children complain that she hardly has any time. But their mother also sees that life is finite and their great-grandmother doesn't have much time left.
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The kids have to learn.
Depending on the age, an integration into the household comes into question with independent tasks, and also the care of the grandma together.
Individual joint activities can thus be planned in a targeted manner.
Not only to accept the appearance for Christmas and birthdays, you also have to give something back.
When it comes to the mammal, it is ideally necessary to provide care and care by others. At the age of the child, of course, needs your parents in anticipation.
Why should that be done by others? uroma is family and such things are done primarily in the family. the children can be easily integrated.
But the children still have a lot ahead and if the mother doesn’t spend time with the original, it’s too late at some point. No one knows the exact time.
Obviously not because the FS mentioned it so explicitly and has it as a problem.
the children are 10 and 12 years old, they should know that you don’t ask so stupid anymore. a clear indication of this
Couldn’t be, because the children at the Uroma only talk about your illness, instead of distracting them from it and are just with you.
Certainly.This is in so far a question of weighing,children 10 and 12 is an age where the mother could regret it later not to have organised differently.For a few years these will no longer want from the mother.
the children need to learn that family is going on and there are obligations. they are old enough to be taken to help. then they can spend time together.
Who can support this family?
Was an application for nursery for the Ur-Oma?
In principle, the grandma is responsible for the mother and Ur-Oma and the mother for children and grandma. Right in that order.
It doesn’t look like the Uroma, the mother always drives shopping, brushing and everything for her, and all the fuel. Every time 25 km for 1 way.
Then the mother has a big problem with setting limits.
Such problems can be addressed to social counselling centres.
Then she would have to take the children with her to the Uroma…(?)
At the age, the children should get that properly explained.
Then you drive to the Grandma/uroma in the morning and after that you do something with the kids
…why don’t you talk to your mother if she doesn’t
can stay with you. Since the Ur-Oma is very old and ill you can her
still visits somehow understand.
Why doesn’t she take the kids?
because the children constantly appeal to her dying and she doesn’t want it. Or ask for Christmas or the next birthday, for example. And she’s taking this because she thinks she couldn’t be there anymore.
the children are 10 and 12 years old, they should know that you don’t ask so stupid anymore. a clear indication of this
This is a great mother who simply pushes the worries and fears of her children to the side, because she has no control over her own fears.
This mother urgently needs psychological support!
then she should take the children to the grandma… at the age they are quite able to understand that someone is old and sick.